Have you ever slept with someone the found out later that...

@saundyl (9698)
Canada
May 6, 2008 11:05am CST
Have you ever slept with a boyfriend or girlfriend or friend then found out later on that they've decided that they are "gay" or "lesbian"? How'd finding out make you feel?
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@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
6 May 08
I did not experience that but I have a friend who got married to a gay. They were blessed with two talented and very good looking children. It didn't last though since they guy is very jealous and there was a point where he almost killed his wife when she came home late since she got 2 jobs that time. They end up their relationship.
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@saundyl (9698)
• Canada
6 May 08
Thats a sad story, thanks for sharing.
@saundyl (9698)
• Canada
6 May 08
oh no. That would be very hard on her.
• United States
6 May 08
I tell you, she will do anything just to earn money,but all descent job! ANyway, thanks and have a great time!
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@dpk262006 (53850)
• Delhi, India
7 May 08
No, it never happend with me.
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@saundyl (9698)
• Canada
10 May 08
Thank you for responding.
• Singapore
4 May 09
That would be sad.
@cyntrow (8527)
• United States
6 May 08
I was married to a gay man for 2 years and we have a son together. But no, he didn't suddenly decide that he was gay. It was something that he had struggled with for most of his life. He thought that if he got married, it would somehow change him, or maybe he just felt that he could fake it for the rest of his life. But he wasn't happy in our marraige. Because he was gay and he was lying to himself.
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@saundyl (9698)
• Canada
6 May 08
It would be a hard thing to fake. thank you for sharing.
• United States
6 May 08
That has no barring on the fact that we slept together. They were attracted to me and we acted on it. Just because they decided that they were gay or lesbian doesn't reflect on me. We still enjoyed the time together. I would respect the persons honesty and leave it at that. We could still be friends if she or he wanted to. No I have not had that happen to me but I am a very open minded person and don't take things personally.
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@saundyl (9698)
• Canada
6 May 08
Thats good :) It happened to me, it was a slight surprise but It didnt offend me or anything. When i found out i realized why in high school he was always checking out guys for me and telling me they were hot. He's happier now so Its good. We're still good friends with him although he lives 17 hours away now I rarely get to see him anymore.