Have you ever slept with someone the found out later that...

I did not experience that but I have a friend who got married to a gay. They were blessed with two talented and very good looking children. It didn't last though since they guy is very jealous and there was a point where he almost killed his wife when she came home late since she got 2 jobs that time. They end up their relationship.

No, it never happend with me.

I was married to a gay man for 2 years and we have a son together. But no, he didn't suddenly decide that he was gay. It was something that he had struggled with for most of his life. He thought that if he got married, it would somehow change him, or maybe he just felt that he could fake it for the rest of his life. But he wasn't happy in our marraige. Because he was gay and he was lying to himself.

That has no barring on the fact that we slept together. They were attracted to me and we acted on it. Just because they decided that they were gay or lesbian doesn't reflect on me. We still enjoyed the time together. I would respect the persons honesty and leave it at that. We could still be friends if she or he wanted to. No I have not had that happen to me but I am a very open minded person and don't take things personally.