should i contact him?

Norway
May 7, 2008 5:56am CST
i broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and i feel miserable. i miss him so much. we broke up because i wasnt sure if he still cared about me. if he really did care wasnt he supposed to fight for us? he spent most of his time with his friends, sometimes i would see him only once in a month even though its only 30 minutes drive to where i live not to mention he passes through where i live every weekday from work. when i call him sometimes he wouldnt answer.i am not the nagging type but i felt neglated and i decided to let him go. he called a couple of times since we broke up just to check up on me. i am not sure what to do, have a clean break or maybe start afresh with him
2 responses
@palonghorn (5486)
• United States
7 May 08
I think it's time for a clean break. I mean he has only called you a couple of times just to see how you were doing, and even when you were together you weren't together much. I think had he really cared about a relationship with you, he would have spent more time with you, he would have been stopping on his way home from work, calling you more and spent less time with his friends and more time with you. Maybe you aren't missing him so much as the idea of having a boyfriend. I know that when me and my s/o lived 1600 miles apart, he emailed me at least 8 -10 times a day, and we talked on the phone at least 3 or 4 times a day. We've been living together for 3 years now and he still emails me everyday and calls just to see how my day is going.
7 May 08
i think that if you like him that much and really miss him , just go for it , you know you'll proabaly be happier with him at your side , but you just have to let him know how you felt neglected , let him unerstand that you want to be with him , but want to be treated with atleast a little repect , i hope this helps =] .