i had a qurral with my boyfriend right now

China
May 7, 2008 8:31am CST
while we had supper together, i was a bit unhappy to be asked by him not to eat too much. but i knew it was a little thing,so little that didn't worth anger, but after the meal, when he always asked me what wrong with me,i got quite angry, i immediately left him and walked along, i got angry
4 responses
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
9 May 08
Tell him softly (even we are AngRy), when he asked you what's wrong, "I respect your concern about me, but I prefer if you can mention it using another way?" Try not to use our arcane treatment on him, like leaving him like that. It's an act of confrontation for him -or- lately he will pointing his nuclear weapon on our head. -sorry, just a joke- Respect him, if you don't like the way he shows you, always start a word in the your important statement, "I respect your ... blah blah, (then add your comment)." Just make sure it's not sounded a confrontation word or a command. Man in nature loves a woman who can create an emotional chance for him. In the communication it works as well, when you start the word that he feels you are giving him some room, he'll catch it right. This may burst out small flame, that prevent a big fire when use the wrong approaching or conversation.
@rainwater (353)
• China
7 May 08
I think it is a little things,you may say to him,talking about him.
• China
7 May 08
Hi,xiaowen!it is ok,you will be fine later,it is not a big deal,when you back from outside after a little while,he must say sorry to you or do something else to make your happy.good luck!
@kezabelle (2985)
7 May 08
Why did he ask you not to eat too much? what were his reasons? My partner would never be so rude as to tell me what I can or cant eat those are my choices and I make them myself.