Best Friend in love with husband

United States
May 26, 2008 8:01pm CST
I have a best friend who I've been friends with for years, as long as I can remember. We've done everything together, and I trust her. But what do you tell her when you find out she's in love with your husband, and she starts acting funny? I mean I feel so weird now. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to react. What would you do in this situation?
4 responses
• China
27 May 08
This is always miserable.. Maybe she is also undergoing a guilty feeling to you. I am not sure but maybe I would talk to my hubby seriously some time,and then go for a chat with her as well. Show her your love to your husband and the privity of you and your hubby cultivated during so many years.Let her know that she will never be able to try breaking up the solid bond in you and your husband.Tell her what is true love and what is just a love actuation. wish my suggestion works and wish you happy
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
27 May 08
I don't really know what to say to this one, but I am curious to see what other people have to say about it. This is a tough situation to say the least. Your response should probably be based on whether or not you trust her not to act on her feeling for him. Either way, I would keep an eye on both of them. If she had the guts to tell you about her feeling for him, it is likely that she has told him already, probably BEFORE she talked to you. To say the least, you need to be very observant.
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
27 May 08
So long as your hubby's still there for you, let her act as she like, which will not make any sense. This situation always happens, my best friend is in love with my ex-ex-bf, and ex-bf, i've only had two bfs, and she kind of loves both of them. And she's now together with my ex-bf. We're not friend any more, in my view, we still contact, but not that closely, we hide something when talking and avoiding love topics. That's it, nothing's to worry about, everything will pass. Enjoy life~~
@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
27 May 08
If you dont trust your husband chain him to a radiator. Evidently he is a good man after all he is your husband. My cousin came to me one day and she admitted to having feelings for my husband, after all he is a wonderful guy. The thing is it didnt matter because I know he is where he wants to be. As long as you trust hubby then I dont really see do much of a problem with it. How do you know she is in love? or is she infatuated with him because she sees how well he respects and treats you? Either way the trust sits with your relationship.