Are you the same mylotter you were 6 months ago?

Six months ago I didnt care much about Mylot just making money. Now I am addicted and love all the new friends I make on here that the money is not important its nice but id still be here without the money.

"rats patootie" That is hilarious, I have never heard that one before!! I am not sure if I have changed any since being on myLot, I have only been here a few months though so may need a bit more time on here to see if I have changed or not!!

When i started mylot, i was not sure of my earnings though that excitement was there thinking of online earnings and a steh time passed by, i am very hapy to know that i ahev found teh correct legit website to worl for online money and that question marke whichw as teher in the begining is not there now as i am confident now after getting payments heer and also proud of bein an mylotian

I think so, I think its because I'm pretty set in my ways now. I think if mylot had been around when I was younger, I might've been more sensitive.

Considering I have been here 7 months I probably am but I felt like your post"if you don't like me,remove me" from the beginning it has been hard for me here and I don't feel like I really no anyone so Why should I care what others think of me.I don't really have any special friends yet and I post mostly off of my friends list,most have never even responded to even one of my disscusions OhWell!!!Have a great night.

There is a seductive quality to this site Katherine that affects us all eventually. We begin tentatively, wanting to be accepted, make some money and for whatever other reasons we joined. But as time goes on and we develop our comfort zones of what makes us comfortable here and what to avoid, and especially the circle of friends we develop, our participation changes. We post more, or less, or whatever we find time for. We care less about what 'others' think, or our place in the ratings system. We come out of our shells and post more securely within our opinions. And it is our friends that we see on our threads consistently, and the resulting relationships with them we may develop off site, that gives us the freedom to be more and more ourselves. So being a happy and productive user here is a process - but it is the connections we make that move that process along in a liberating and positive way. There is no substitute for the power of friendship.

i guess not..im still the same ..before and after and before six months ago...nothing changes i guess except for the topics and issues i had posted and responded more personal and more caring to my friends here...and whatever comments i received from my discussions be it positive or negative i accept it and respect their differing views..coz i know that all of us are have different views on thing and cant please everyone here..everybody have its own thing!!

I'm pretty much the same way. I wasn't so outspoken when I first started here. It didn't take me long however to say what I felt without really minding what other people thought of me and my posts. I think you just get used to it and don't care anymore, not after awhile anyway.

I don't think so. Just like you...maybe not 6 months ago...but back when I first started I would get sensitive about things and have days when I didn't want to read responses because I didn't think I could handle anymore backlash...Now eh, I may not like what's being said, I may not deserve what's being said but it doesn't 'hurt'. A year ago I felt horrible when my star dropped that one little point that put me back to a red star...A few months ago I went from a 97 to a 98 and then down to 96 in a matter of three days. I'd still like my 98 back (or higher) but it's not a big issue. Back when I started I kept to myself more...I wanted to stick up for friends but was afraid of being attacked if I did...now, I'll stick up for them for as long as it takes and if I take a hit for it oh well.

I know I start a lot more discussions now than I use to 6 months ago. I am pretty much still the same and don't let things get to me. I've made a few more friends which is nice.

In many ways I feel I am the same type of mylotter - I still try to be honest, to see points from all angles, look for the good in people, be respectful and tolerant , support my friends etc but I think that as humans we all are constantly changing, adapting and evolving so none of us stay stagnant as a person. xxx

hi kb i havent been here but about four months but I have learned to be a bit tougher skinned due to the star crap and the troll minusing bit I was hurt to tears several times but like you just said I also do not give a "rats patootie" I am used to my silver seven and am still the same person' I was at star ten so what the heck anyway, i am still 'having fun on mylot and the friendship and caring and sharing are most of the reason I am here plus I can use the extra money. I have changed a lot.

I wasn't on MyLot 6 months ago but I posted a similar rant on Yuwie and another one later on Big Crumbs. The Yuwie one had to do with the snitching situation and the Big Crumbs one had to do with the spam count they had on there temporarily. I don't know if anybody actually deleted me though. Anyway so I can't directly answer your question because I've only been on here since March, but I do know that it really bugs me to be misunderstood, so I would go a little far (maybe) to clear up a misunderstanding. And if somebody I was close to deleted me, I might feel a bit hurt, otherwise not. I don't think I'm the same person as I was 6 months ago, nothing to do with MyLot though.

Well Kat..since I've only been here 3 months sure..LOL but i know what she means since I started here with all that troll problems just happening and slowly decided its not worth it and have gone with the flow and now things seem to be calm here.

well six months ago I was on a hiatus from my lot, I wasn't here I had taken a break, but when I first came I answered anybody and everybody hoping somebody would answer me back, now if I work so hard to answer somebody's stuff and and they never comment on anything of mine (of course you are one of the people who comment all the time so this is not addressed to you) I delete them.

Yes, I am still the same MyLotter since the time I get started with this site, I do not want to lied within me if they do loved and like me then it would be better but if they won't they probably they could also removed me in there space.......

i suppose that i am somewhat the same as i used to be, but i am more intersted in working at home now than i used to be due to my knees having issues (i have severe arthritis in them) and so that is what my focus is currently.

i am not the same mylotter, i have improved drastically on every areas. even in the area of earnings i am better now and i still to do even better.

Well six months ago I wasn't a myLotter! However, I would say that I am more comfortable now than I was then. I have developed strong friendships and I have learned where I can go safely and where it might be wiser for me to avoid straying. For a variety of reasons I don't handle confrontation very well and one ill placed word can drown me in self-doubt. I view myLot as part of my rehabilitation towards a normal life again. However, it is a fragile thing, and whilst I would say that I am addicted, I consider leaving here every single day. But what would I do for daytime friends then?

At first I was just curious to see how much extra money I could make a day . I have met some real cool people so the money is like an added perk now . When I first stared i thought about my post too much and what people would think , and now I am more of a doer !