someone is watching while you are doing some post, are you feel comfortable?

@mulau2u (1459)
Malaysia
June 5, 2008 3:26am CST
last night when i am sitting in fornt of my computer doing some post, there was my wife standing over me, she keep looking my post and read it a little of voice, ever time i type a word then she read it, this make my idea gone, i acctualy dont care but it make uncomfortable a bit. do you still comfortable if there is people standing beside you looking for what you do.
5 responses
@Timothy31 (649)
• United States
5 Jun 08
If there is someone looking over my shoulder it makes me uncomfortable no matter what i am doing at the computer.
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
can i ask why :) , for me i feel not comfortable maybe because they will laugh what i have been write.
• United States
5 Jun 08
Yeah thats basically why i'd feel uncomfortable too.
@sminut13 (1786)
• Singapore
5 Jun 08
i would definitely feel uncomfortable and awkward especially when i am doing something personal. usually i don't mind but at times, there might be stuff that i would want to keep personal so it definitely won't do to have someone watching over your shoulder.
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
yeah for me it look like i been spying for what i do. at office when i have to read some e-mail i will not open it till the person beside me get away.
5 Jun 08
It probably would make me feel uncomfortable if they were standing over me, if they were sat next to me then it wouldnt be as bad. The only thing that would bug me if they were telling me to write what they thought and not what I wanted to write!! My boyfriend isnt interested in mylot, he'll look from across the sofa but wont come and read any of it!! I think you should tell your wife to bring a chair next to you as you feel uncomfortable when she is standing over you!!
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
i just move over my computer to the floor using a small table, my wife and i at same lavel in english so when i type something then she ask what it mean and that make my idea just gone, i probably ask her to look at the baby to avoid her ask to much :)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
Well it really annoys me when someone is reading and speaking the things im writing down. like you said it looses concentration and ideas. To make it short I like it if im alone because i can gradually do more and think more. What I usually do is talk to them and tell them that I will let you read my work if im done with it then they could comment and we or I could revise it if needed. It is nice to show your work if its finished! but while doing it! its kind of annoying.
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
i like the way you handle this, i better like to be alone while i am doing posting, i just show what i did to my wife only, but sometime she annoying me i dont know for what cause but everything just going fine.
@leafgxu (473)
• China
5 Jun 08
I feel uncomfortable if someone is watching at me when I am doing something on my computer. In my opinion, the thing I do at the computer is my personal thing and someone watch me would make me divert my attention.