someone is watching while you are doing some post, are you feel comfortable?
June 5, 2008 3:26am CST
last night when i am sitting in fornt of my computer doing some post, there was my wife standing over me, she keep looking my post and read it a little of voice, ever time i type a word then she read it, this make my idea gone, i acctualy dont care but it make uncomfortable a bit. do you still comfortable if there is people standing beside you looking for what you do.
5 Jun 08
i would definitely feel uncomfortable and awkward especially when i am doing something personal. usually i don't mind but at times, there might be stuff that i would want to keep personal so it definitely won't do to have someone watching over your shoulder.
5 Jun 08
It probably would make me feel uncomfortable if they were standing over me, if they were sat next to me then it wouldnt be as bad. The only thing that would bug me if they were telling me to write what they thought and not what I wanted to write!! My boyfriend isnt interested in mylot, he'll look from across the sofa but wont come and read any of it!! I think you should tell your wife to bring a chair next to you as you feel uncomfortable when she is standing over you!!
5 Jun 08
Well it really annoys me when someone is reading and speaking the things im writing down. like you said it looses concentration and ideas. To make it short I like it if im alone because i can gradually do more and think more. What I usually do is talk to them and tell them that I will let you read my work if im done with it then they could comment and we or I could revise it if needed. It is nice to show your work if its finished! but while doing it! its kind of annoying.