Have you ever been stalked before?

@cream97 (29169)
United States
June 5, 2008 6:39pm CST
What was this like for you? If not, what steps would you take to avoid a situation like this?
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7 responses
@dragon54u (31617)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Yes, I had a guy who wanted to marry me when I was in my 20's and wouldn't leave me along. I did all the things I was supposed to do legally but it didn't work. I ending up telling him in no uncertain terms what I would do to him if he continued. He didn't listen. He was hurting when I was done with him.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
It is a bad segment of my life. Being stalked brings me to trmendous heart attack. I was always afraid during that time. Ifelt like I am not safe in any place where I go. Luckily it happened during the time I had a boyfriend and my bf is very supportive of me but still the stalker does not stop. He keeps on bugging me. The problem is the police can't arrest him since he hasn't do anything bad according to them. Butmy golly, I am always sleepless during that time. Im glad it stopped. Maybe because I already moved out. hahaha
• China
6 Jun 08
I don't have this experience . I think if i was stalked by some guy ,i will go fast to a shop.Perhaps i will call a friend to pick up me or i will call the policeman!
@agfarm (930)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Not to my Knowledge , But I have visible Red-Stillettos......... and they pack one he!! of a Wallop!
@myklj999 (13776)
• Olney, Illinois
6 Jun 08
I'm supposed to have a stalking "crew" here at myLot, but they haven't been doing a very good job lately.
• United States
5 Jun 08
Yes I have. It was a boy that I grew up with. I knew him from Headstart and he always followed me around then trying to kiss me and what not. In highschool he'd wait at my locker, come find me at lunch, wait at my car for me. I'd hide in the girls bathroom until I was sure he left or wait in classrooms and stay with friends until I knew he was gone. I'd also have guys that I knew walk me to my car so he'd see me with another guy and leave me alone. He eventually got another girl pregnant and got married so he's left me alone thankfully. Well he's left me alone so much. I don't see him anymore but my mother does because now she works with him. He always asks about me and she tells him I'm fine but I tell her just to tell him it's none of his business. She won't listen.
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
5 Jun 08
Sadly yes I have been stalked. It is not a good feeling at all. I was stalked on 3 seperate occasions. One from a complete stranger, one from an ex boyfriend and one from a very close personal friend or so I thought. The two that were from people that I knew and that I cared about were truly the scariest as they were so unpredicatable from the moment it started. I thought that I knew them but apparently I didn't. It is a very scary situation to be in and I hope no one ever has to go through it. The complete stranger was so predicatable it wasn't funny I knew the move he was going to make before he even did it. Needless to say that one didn't last very long at all. Thank god. You would think that from people you knew it would be more predicatable and it not coming from a complete stranger. There really isn't too much you can do about avoiding stalking. Just really be aware of your surroundings at all times.