What if you found out that your GIRLFRIEND is PREGNANT ACCIDENTALLY?

@Klarenz (261)
Philippines
June 6, 2008 12:03am CST
How do you handle the situation? Will you tell your parents about that? Whose the first one you will talk to about it? What are your plans after that?
7 responses
@snowy22315 (54374)
• United States
6 Jun 08
I think the best thing to do is to tell your parents and to do it soon, while you have options, the worst thing to do is let time drag on with this situation. The sooner they know the sooner everyone can make plans.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Your parents is the only person you can depend on. Don't waste time, you can never bring it back. "Time is Gold"
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
If i found out that my GF is pregnant, my first reaction will be: "Hey Honey, is that really MMMIIINNNNEEEE????!!!"
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
lol. :D
• China
6 Jun 08
Well, I will see what the situation is.If we gonna get marriage we certainly would like to be delicered of the baby.if not we will take measure to Ab-abbortion. With regard to the second part of your question I say this ,In my opinion.I wouldn't take about the sitution to my parents ,They just bring pressure in us though it may have bad influence upon her heart. No matter what.we don't want to such thing to happen.Good lucky!
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
well, abortion is a BIG sin in gods eye. better to take care of the baby than abortion. Because no matter what happen your family is always there at your side whatever happens. :)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
It's mind-boggling to find out if your girlfriend got pregnant accidentally. BUT, if I am the who is responsible for that then i will take the responsibility as the father. But again if I am not the father of the child, I guess i have to drink to that first LOLs, then afterwards or on the following day i think we have to talk about it so we can fix things.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Right! getting each others side opinion is i think the best solution! :)
@iamnes (325)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
i was gonna ask you how the hell it became "ACCIDENTAL", but i guess somebody already did. engaging in such 'activity' you should have thought that sooner or later she might become pregnant, you should have been ready to tell you parents about it. i think you should tell your parents, they deserved to know the truth after everything they did for you, that's the least you could do for them, be honest. they could also advised you on what you should do and what's best for you, your gf and your baby. you should plan with your gf about your finances and responsibilities and what will be your set-up. whether you will live together, get married (if you are both ready) or still live with each other's parents - in this case, each other's responsibility should be clearly agreed upon. having a baby is very costly and very serious, so it is important that there should be a very open communication between you and your girlfriend to avoid any misunderstandings and heartaches. good luck and enjoy with your girl the pregnancy stage, it will be very exciting and nerve-wrecking, but it's all worth it!
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Right! Open communication with your family and Girlfriend i think is the best solution. Thanks for sharing! :)
@archrage (42)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
If i found out that my GF is Pregnant i have no choice but to support her and our baby of course cuz who wil ltake care of her? and the baby? ME of course cuz its our responsibilty and i will tell my parents also but i will explain it briefly so they dont faint or anything :P First me and my girlfried will talk about it and try to work something up!
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Yeah, take care of the baby. its god's gift for us and talk with your partner about your plans and talk to your parents as well.
• India
6 Jun 08
parents shud be the 1st one to know...they'll help u out in every situation
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Right! i think they will still accept you after that. Parents is the first one you can depend on.
@challs12 (549)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 08
"what if you found out that your girlfriend is pregnant ACCIDENTLY?" First, I would like to ask, did you F**k her ACCIDENTLY? So, there's no way to have accident pregnancy. After all you did to her, you have to take full responsibility to what had happened to her. Otherwise, I suggest girls to enter a social contract with her boyfriend before enter into a serious relationship. Remember girl, oil prices increased crazily nowadays and milk prize and other products also will increase too. So, it's wise to avoid accident rather than curing the injury cause by the accident. :)
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
better to talk with your partner about family planning. :) -thanks for responding!
@salonga (27955)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
You've got to talk this thing out first to your parents, not only because they have the right to know this but because they are the ones who could give you the best advice and could work things through. Your girlfriend should do the same things as well and then you set an immediate time for both of your families to meet to talk things out. But always remember that the final decision rests on you and your partner and no one else. If you feel you are ready and really love each other then go and get married... if otherwise... think again you might just end up regretting everything!
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Yeah right! because whatever happens your family is always there to support yun and to guide you. even if you have your own family there always there for you. :) -thanks for responding!