my friend died today,,
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
India
June 10, 2008 8:41am CST
Shocking... shocking... and shocking..i can't believe that he was consumed to flames... He is such a kind of person, who is so calm, he does not even talk aloud in office. His Voice is as if he is whispering.. He is a teetotaler.. i can't digest that he is no more.
Till last week, that is on 2nd of June he was fine, no problems.
On that day he complained of stomach pain, and went of see the Doctor. The scan was taken, and he was diagonised with a tumor in his liver at the advanced stage.. and that....he could hardly believe it, when he was told.. and nonetheless the fact is fact, and he was operated for it. Even before operation..the doctors were of the opinion that the chances of survival is very minimal.
This guy was confident about his survival and asked the doctor to perform operation. The thing is he walked straight to the hospital and got admitted on his own accord, told his family members that he will come home safely ......And now, his soul watching this as i am posting about him.
PS: TODAY IS HIS BIRTH DAY ALSO.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
Hi savenkaat802003! I am really saddened with this. I am sorry to learn of your friend's passing away. And I believe that when he was saying that he will come home safely after the operation, he will be coming home safely in heaven. I believe that his sufferings has ended and that he is a lot happier in heaven celebrating his birthday. My condolences and prayers for his friends and his family.
May God bless his soul!
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
10 Jun 08
Thanks for sharing the grief friend.. I am really in a gloomy,.. sullen.. and shrunk in despair.
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@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
10 Jun 08
I am thawed by your growing compassion...and really you are a good friend whom i can share my heart with.
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@mentalward (14691)
• United States
10 Jun 08
That is so sad! I am so very sorry for you losing your friend and for his family.
I know how horrible it is to lose someone that way. My mother was 80 years old, in good health (we thought) and living on her own. One day she experienced extreme confusion and I took her to the hospital. They said she had a tumor in her lung that had spread to her brain. She only lived for 3 more weeks, and the last week she was in a coma.
I feel your pain. This shows us that you can never know what life has in store for you and that you should spend what time you have left being good to yourself and to others. We could all die tomorrow.
Take care and remember that your friend is in a much better place now.
@mentalward (14691)
• United States
11 Jun 08
Okay, I just realized that I had put the link to my personal website on here and that information is on the front page. I had forgotten all about it!
Whew! I thought you were the ultimate psychic! Well, now that that's solved, I hope the memories of your friend will begin to fill that void he left behind very soon.
@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
10 Jun 08
I am so sorry. It is beyond words when someone that is close to us passes away. For a reason that is so unexplainable also. May he rest in peace.
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
10 Jun 08
I am very sorry to hear this. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. What happened was really very sad. Perhaps if he had gone to the doctor earlier for his health problems he might have been saved? Many people ignore their medical problems until it is too late. Anyway, may his soul rest in peace!
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
10 Jun 08
If he had been subjected to any health problems he would have gone at an earlier stage to consult the doctor.. but he was comfortable till the last week, no indications of whatsoever..
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
10 Jun 08
This is so sad. I am sorry for your loss. I know it happens. But it is never easy to deal with. I hope posting here and discussing with mylot will bring you some peace.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
10 Jun 08
Exactly, this brings some sort of heal to the grieved feelings.
@Zergonipal (807)
• Poland
10 Jun 08
That is very sad. I don't know what I can really say, couse no words will help I think. I hope he is in a better place now, and that his family will survive this hard times.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
10 Jun 08
yea.. his family is now facing hard times... No bread winner.. only the insurance protection that he had through our office is now acting like a buffer.
I don't know how long it will last..
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
10 Jun 08
yea.. our organization has planned some thing of that kind.. and surely she will be looked after with the basic needs...till she gets relieved of the shock.
@Zergonipal (807)
• Poland
10 Jun 08
Maybe make some sort of discard for the widow? To give her more time before moneys run out.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
Condolence to the family of your friend. Even if I dont know him I felt so sad. How painful it is to the family, maybe hes still young and more opportunities to come. Maybe it is Gods will and we cannot question. Happy Birthday to him also, wherever he is.
@jashley1 (746)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I'm very sorry to hear of your friend's passing away on today and although this is a sad event, we have to realize that everything happens for a reason. I know that may not seem legitimate at this point in time, but although I do not know your friend, I am thankful he got to live the life that he had. Like others have written, his life was taken and perhaps that was to avoid future pain and sickness. I will keep you in my prayers. May you and his family be comforted at this time.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
10 Jun 08
i am sorry to learn what you shared with us on this mylot post.the friend has gone leaving behind the trail of silent memories plenty of them with all of you. he has been brave, while he lived and his given a message to all that life has an ultimate end. may god give courage to you and the family of the departed soul to bear the loss.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I am so sorry for your loss. Is there anything that any of us can do for you?
@twallace (2675)
• United States
11 Jun 08
That is something that i feel really sorry about. He was still strong even knowing that he might not make it. But that is not the point to be said; be strong just like he was even though he knew that he could die. He was still strong and encouraged his family he would be home. So even in a said moment of loosing someone still be strong. That is how they would want you to be.
@Timothy31 (649)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. My condolences to you, his family and everyone else that knew and loved him.
@krishworld (10)
•
11 Jun 08
Hey....b cool man it's all fake it's a big loss for u losing such a friend and his family
