what will you do if you and your best friend are in love with the same girl/boy?

India
June 12, 2008 10:59am CST
well if you ask me if me and my best friend are in love with the same girl ,then it depends only on the girl .if me and my friend loves the same girl ,it is not possible that the girl will also love both of us.i will always try to make her happy,i will spend more time with her and understand her. so that at the end she will choose me as a life partner. what do you think?
7 responses
@bombshell (11268)
• Germany
13 Jun 08
yes try to impress him or her so that he or she will fall for you.
@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I think I would just back off and let the "guy" in my case, make his own decision on who he wants to date or be with. I would not want it to be competition between me and my friend. I would be hurt if the guy didn't choose me, but I would also be happy if he chose to be with my friend and they were both happy with one another. I would never try to come in between that either.
• India
12 Jun 08
that is definitely a tricky situation. it is like you have put in a hot pie. neither you can swallow nor you can vomit it. it gets stuck.first of all and the the last of all, the girl should be allowed to make her choice. of course, without any bias or emotional stress and the like. her free will and decision should be respected.
@shilpa_p (198)
• India
12 Jun 08
Well, i think thats not the point.It depends on who the guy likes.Theres so many cases of one-sided love.So,i think its best for the person he likes to go ahead and the other to back off,even if that person has to be me.
@mialei23 (2386)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
I will give way. Well, it doesn't matter now which one of us is the interest of the guy. I want my best friend to be happy and even If I like the guy, I will give way for them. Now, if the boys likes me ofcourse I will never accept him, I want to be fair, Its hard to find a real friend and I don't want to lose my best friend just because of a BOY INTEREST thing.
• China
12 Jun 08
try to know which one of us does our beloved have interests on.Then make my way/
• Kottayam, India
12 Jun 08
It triangluar love, as per Indian Cinema rules one has to die