me and my girlfriend

Hello Faithworster, I dont see anything wrong with it at all. You deserve to be happy and if this makes you happy then great. Nobody deserves to get beat by their lover and I'm glad that you got out of that relationship and into one that makes you happy. Please dont spend a lot of time caring about what other think, its not them that your living for and they dont know what you've been through. Big Hugs, Tianna

Personally, I don't but there will be those who do simply because anything outside of the norm is objectionable to someone. I'm glad that you found happiness and that you share the bond of love with someone special.

There isn't anything wrong with it. Sometimes you just want to be treated right for a change. I don't think a lot of men understand the complexity of what a woman really wants and needs. I think women tend to be less selfish less demanding than a man. Women are nicer hahaha well most of them. Women are emotionally strong. Women understand when you have period cramps. Women know what other women like and need in a relationship.

I wish you luck. I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience with a guy. For whatever its worth, people can be abusive, regardless of gender. I was with a girl for three years who was very abusive and emotionally manipulative of me. I was pretty naive at the time and didn't know any better. I had pretty much just come out myself and really didn't know that I deserved so much more. So I accepted it, thinking thats all there was. She was very controlling, and at one point even took a baseball bat to me to keep me from enrolling in classes at the local university. You would have thought that would have been the final straw, but it wasn't. I stayed with her for another year. I did spend the next year trying to figure out how to get out of the relationship, and I did, thankfully. When I broke up with her, my family was like "yay, she'll go straight now!" Well, it's not abuse that makes one straight or gay. If it were, there'd be a LOT more lesbians out there because of all the abuse women suffer at the hands of abusive men. (Please note for the rest of the readers, I don't think all men are abusive, I have 5 wonderful brothers who are complete gentlemen!) I just remember when I was young and going out on the town with my girlfriend happy as can be, and I just wanted to shout out to the world how happy I was finally to BE who I really am, and to not shove myself into some kind of suffocating box. I was out, going and doing NORMAL things like NORMAL people with my NORMAL partner. We're not the one's who have a problem with it. It's the gaybashers and the "godhatesfag'ers" who have a problem with it. They're the ones who seem out to make peoples lives miserable. Which honestly doesn't seem very "christian" to me in any sense of the imagination. Live your life, be true to yourself, be an honest person, be kind to others, work hard, play hard, love life, love your partner, embrace all that life has to offer you - and if other people cause you grief, realize that it's a chip on *THEIR* shoulder, not yours. Peace!

It's great. There is nothing wrong with it. I can see why you're afraid of men. I was in abusive relationship myself and see why people can turn bi or les. Men don't know how to treat women sometimes. Just get some counseling, because it could affect you if you don't. NOt all men are that stupid, beat you, only some will. Good luck.