Do we need a lover at college ???

for me it's better to not have a lover while studying...c0z it will divide your attention...and the hardest part is when you decide to broke up or even just a little misunderstandings...it will affect your studies no matter how hard you try not to...believe me...I tried it...so hard...

Do we really need a lover in a college?If, someone asks me such question,I shall say that love is not a need,it just happens.No,I do not have a lover in my college & frankly speaking I am not that much interested either.I have seen a lot of my friends with broken hearts & I do not want to be a broken heart too.If it is meant to be happen,it just happens & everybody should wait for the right time & person.

Yes.. Itz better to hav a lover at college.. Love is a feeling.. You can feel it and u will be able to know your lover more..

i don't have a lover and the truth is most of my friends don't have either.so i don't feel the pressure.i guess if you find someone you love,don't let her go,just grab her as grab the spoon.just don't let go.many years later,after you got married ,this memory of first love will last forever.

good day..mt, For me I did have a lover, not because I needed one but because it just happened. I think we can't reach our hearts when to fall and when it did you can't sleep with out thinking of that person. Every morning is beautiful with the thought of seeing her and talking to her. I think that's love at it's purest and sincerest.

Ha Na It Would Proable Be Good Not To Have One At First but Down The Road If You Doin Good With The Ladies Then Dont Get One But If not Then Now You Know Why All Your Friends Have Girls ha

Hi mtsandeep, Well I never needed to go and find myself a lover in college, because I was my own best lover! Things worked really well that way. I always seemed to know just what to say to cheer me up when I was feeling down, and I somehow always knew what I was thinking. And I liked exactly all the same things that I liked too, so I never had an argument or disagreement with me. And I had all the same friends too! And I always said exactly the right things to turn me on, and no-one could make me feel like I could! In a word - woohoo!

having a lover in college, to me, is not really necessary. though it may add spice to your college life, but didn't we go to school to learn and earn our degree? i guess if you'll have a lover during college it will happen but it should not be much of a concern if you don't have one. we can enjoy college life with friends and activities in school. just have fun while learning and if the right person comes then be even happier.

hmmmm....... well i dont have a lover so far and iam not thinking about it , maybe i have to wait for the right time

I am at college at the moment and I have a partner at the moment, we have been together for 8 months, which is basically the whole of the first year of college. I doubt he will be my last partner as we want to go to different Universities and I don't know if either of us could manage a long distance relationship.

Well, the love of my life is a very strange one! Get ready for a LONG story! First off, him and I went to highschool together and played the marching band together but we never really spoke though we had a lot of mutual friends. Well at the end of our senior year my best friend had a graduation party and we both attended it. at this point in my life I was NEVER asked out by anyone ever. (People says i was intimidating) Well anyways, I was sitting alone and David comes up and sits next to me and says "hey, are you thirsty?" and I was SO excited that I was getting offered a drink!! So I said "Yeah!" and He said "Good! While you're up will you get me something too?" And thus sparked a friendship where he later confessed his love for me, but I was not having it. Well eventaully I gave in, but it didn't last long. Anyways we meet up again later, and start dating again and this time it's serious!! We were in love and he was my first everything!!! And then he said he got scared and broke up with me... 3 months later he gets back from an internship in Singapore and we're practically soulmates and we are always together, but then he gets scared again and we break up again!!! I told him that that was IT and it was FINAL and so I started dating this other guy. Well then David freaked out and did everything to win me back, and he sort of did, but it wasn't the same because he wasn't HIMSELF he was who he thought I wanted him to be. So we broke up again and now I am single and I saw him for the first time last weekend and we're still just as in love as we always were, but we're taking it very slowly. It's been since 2003 that we've been attracted to eachother and he's graduating in August and hopefully moving back to the city and him and I can take it from there.

hi friend, ya it is a better

no i dont think y should we....i think its better off not to hav any girlfriend in coll....

I agree and dont agree. From my personal experience its right that when you are together in college you get to know the other person well. I mean we get to know all his plus and minus points..But then another thing that i learned too was that I screwed up all my studies coz I was always occupied with her. So if you ask me its better to study when you are actually going to study rather than having any deviation from your primary goal. And when you start working you could start dating and may find someone who you could love for the rest of your life.

No, you don't need a lover in college. If you fall in love while in college, good, fine. Hope it's a great experience. But, last I heard, lovers weren't a requirement for higher education.

i recommend to finish your studies first before entering into a relationship., have fun being single!

It depends who you are as a person. Some people could actually focus on their work & their lover! Some people might put too much focus into their lover & lose track of work or vice-versa. The best person can tie having a lover & keeping up with your school-work together. Look deep inside of yourself and figure out which you would be! I'm only going to a community college, not a real one so I guess i'll never truely know what it would be like. I may transfer over to a college that actually has dorms n' stuff if I get lucky & get some scholarships or anything like that but if not, i'll just be sticking with good ol' local commmunity college. It's way cheaper and I can basically get the same education. Only difference is i'll be missing out on the college experience! *siiigh*

i've no lover either. I think partner is needed coz human can live alone. What a fun day if we have parnet that understand us and always there for us. Maybe that feeling is like honey meet sugar... so sweet (maybe).

need, not really, if you want one then you should get one

One may feel he requires a Partner at all the ages. He feel comfort and Confident with a lover even at the age he's in college. So its better you find a girl/boy in college. This will increase your confidence levels and you can achieve some BIG.