why is it so hard???

I'm assuming that you're the oldest since you only mentioned younger siblings in your post. It's hard for a mom to let go of a child and it's especially hard with the oldest one. Your mom is going to have to learn to trust you and learn not to worry about you constantly and I'm sure these things are on her mind since you've recently graduated from high school. It's a hard transition for a mother, trust me, I've been through it four times and it's hard each and every time. I have a 17 year old who just graduated, too, (my baby) and one of the things that has made me more comfortable is knowing the kids she hangs out with, knowing where she is and what she is doing. If your mom doesn't know your friends well maybe having them come over and letting her get to know them will help. I agree that talking to her can help but only if the conversation is a calm one, which I know is hard when you feel you're not being treated fairly. Maybe you can offer to take on more of the household responsibilities to show your maturity in exchange for a little bit of freedom. Also, have you considered getting a part time job? I know working is not fun but it will get you out of the house and, again, it will show your mom that you're responsible. Last but not least, don't think of this summer as your last chance to have fun! College is going to be a blast and you'll have many more opportunities to have fun then and after you graduate. Fun does not end at adulthood but I do understand how you feel. Good luck.

all teenagers think their moms are strct and making life difficult, you will realise when u reach that stage and have a teenager as daughter at home, whatever your does its in the bvest interest for your good and safety

hi my dear,to start with i think a lot of girls at your age do face this problem however it is not so much of a problem if faced properly. to start with why dont you talk to your mom. Sit down with her explain to her how you feel. i am sure she will understand. Sometimes it is hard for you to understand why moms are the way they are till you grow up. I dont mean to be harsh on you, but dont assume anything and speak to your mom i am sure she will understand and youll can come to some kind of a solution.all the best

Well. In this situation, i would certainly sit down, and have a talk with mom. She has to understand that you have a life, and that you are going to want to do your own things and live your own way. Just tell your mom that if you are responsible enough to go to college, then you should be allowed to do other things.

I would think that your mom knows she doesn't have much time left before you leave the house and start your life. My mom is the same way, Overprotective!. I hate it just as you do. I would have a talk with her about backing off a little bit, Also I think you should make a little more time with your siblings and mother. You should enjoy the time you do get to spend with them before you have to go out and start your own family.

hi, some parents try to keep their children from doing things as a way to save them from things that may happen. but the thing is the only wayo really save your children is to let them live their own life and make their own mistakes. my mom was the same way, she wouldnt let me do anything when i was in school and dont let her hear a story about a girl dying or coming up missing, that made it worse.the only thing is that you have to respect her rules because it's her house. but in my case all it did was caused me to runaway.