what will you do to your baby?

@chechuva (1276)
Philippines
June 19, 2008 7:52am CST
this past few days, there were numbers of reported babies found in the trash can, canals, aborted and abandoned by their parents.. some says this is due to unwanted pregnancies, post partum blues, or some other psychological problems. but if ever you have an unwanted pregnancy or you were left by your boyfriend or your baby have a congenital defect, will you abort or abandon your baby?
6 responses
@jdyrj777 (6556)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I had an unplanned pg and the father said "its not mine". I went through everything by my self. When she was born my bf brother gave me a ride to the hospital. She looked exactly like everyone in his family. He saw this when he came to the hospital. I didn't care if he was involved in her life or not. She is my baby. Good riddens dad! She is now 26 and has a family of her own. He did not interact with her all those yrs. Recently she found him online and started they started calling each other. I never said anything negitive about him. Just want her to make her own ideas about him. He has been telling her for over a year that he is going to come to see her and the kids. Well, he's not made it here yet. But he has traveled to another state with his other daughter. My daughter has not said anything to me about him, but her bf has. He tells me she says her dad doesn't love her. Even he says he does. ???
@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
i won't say i understand how you feel for being abandoned by your ex, but i salute you for being so kind in favor to your ex. you are a brave woman. and i think you raise a good daughter.. she may not tell you how she feels about his father, but atleast she didn't rebelled against his father! no doubt you are a good mom/dad to her.
@jdyrj777 (6556)
• United States
22 Jun 08
Bless you!
@nupats (3564)
• India
19 Jun 08
i can never dream of abandoning my baby..if i come to know tht the baby has some major health problem while in the womb i might abort the child..i can take care of my child if he has a disorder as long as i m alive but wt will happen to the child when i die this thought will make me want to abort...if i give birth and find out i will go ahead and do my best to keep my kid happy as long as i live..
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@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
that's the dilemma about raising a special child. what if we die first before them...
@minnie_98214 (10572)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Nope id never abort a baby unless there was no chance for us to live thru birth. I had a test say my second child had down syndrome my ex wanted me to abort and I would not even consider it. We had further testing done to find out he did not have down syndrome. He is autistic and just as loved as ever. Even a child with problems is still worth life in my book.
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@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
it is really a big sacrifice for parents to race special children. and i really adore your patience and unconditional love to your children. You'll be blessed for keeping your child! two thumbs up for you minnie!
@patzel88 (3311)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
its not fault of the baby to their mistakes, and to those mother that involve to this , doesnt know the meaning of life, its a sin to commit a crime
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@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
there are really times, parents put their anger and hatred to their children. sad but true...
@gamgee (116)
• Philippines
22 Jun 08
These babies found in the trash cans are caused by irresponsible people who never gave one iota of thought to what the outcome of their irresposible acts will be. Its sad that things like this happen. For me, I'd rather have an abortion than throw my baby away, if I cant give my child a good home, there are lots of good people out there who are willing to adopt a child, so Id put him up for adoption. Anyway, there are lots of ways to avoid pregnancy, so that, things like this could be prevented from happening.
@salonga (27955)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
Whatever is the circumstance, I will never never abort or abandon my baby. A baby has the right to life and as a mother I am obligated to give it the best way to her.