Leaving my parents, I miss them more and more!

June 20, 2008 11:10pm CST
After I graduated from university, I went to another city for my new life.It also means I am far away from my parents.In begining, I enjoy the new life and touch with a lot of new things.So, I didn't feel I can't leave my parents.But several years later, when I am familiar with new city. I feel I miss my parents more. My parents are old now.Once I think that they will stay in the world with me only about 20~30 years,I am afraid and being tears in my eyes. I can't imagine the day they leave me.It's terrible to me. Being a daugher of my parents,I am happy. They care me all the time.They are my teacher--first teacher and best teacher. I am a part of my parents. They give me life. I own them too much. I hope I can enjoy every day with them. I hope to bring them smile and pleasure. I have not said: I love you, my dear dady and momy! I have never given a sweet kiss to them. It's very regret.In fact, in my heart,I have shouted many times:dear dady and momy, I love you!
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• United States
21 Jun 08
Yes, I know how you feel! Sometimes you find it difficult leaving your parents, the ones who created you! But it's gonna be okay. Just visit them often!
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
21 Jun 08
I wish every daughter should be like you, you are just wonderful, I have two daughters, I hope even they care for me like this, they are smallkids now, I am proud that I have given birth to two sweet little daughters..God bless you..I can say you are just wonderful..You are parents are very fortune to get a daughter like you.. God bless you and your family..Happy life....
@youless (94716)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jun 08
That's very sweet for you to say it to your parents in person. I know it may be hard, as we seldom say it to our parents. I also love my parents. And I left them after I graduated. I lived alone as I wanted to be independent. Fortunately we live in the same city. So at least it's not so hard for us to see each other. But I still miss them, especially when I am sad and meet some difficulties. I want someone close to talk. I can't imagine that one day my life will be without them. But this is life. All I can do is to treat them well when they are still with us. So I won't have big regrets after they leave me. I love China
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• China
21 Jun 08
you are really a wonderful daughter.i'm not like you at this point.maybe i have ever be a nice daughter of my parents.now i think i'm not.since i lost my mama ten years ago.my father really let me down again and again.but i don't hate him.he has ever be a wonderful dad.he has change since he remarried.he don't love his kids like before.it's a long bad story.i should forget it.
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@juhi06 (1850)
• India
21 Jun 08
hi annylin you are a brave girl. you are away from you parents.you have to bear it for your good. you are alone .soon you will be busy and have some work at hand and many more things will be there to be attended to(being alone).but the important strides you will take in your studies and your career will belittle all these missings. any way all girls have to move away from their parents even after marriage.it does not reduce their love and respect for their parents.
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
Hello annylin, cheer up! Got to move on. You're a very good daughter and as you stated, you love your parents very much. But you also need to grow up and become independent - your parents will be proud of you. Yes, for sure you will be missing your parents very much and they will miss you too. But there are a lot of means for you to always keep in-touch wuth each other. You could call them every day, after your work. You stated that you never said I love you's to them, but you tell them deep in your heart. I guess it's time for you to say it now. Life is short and you will never know what happens tomorrow, if we will still be here or not. So do it now so you won't regret. Your parents will be proud of you seeing you grow and become independent woman. Cheers!
• India
21 Jun 08
It is sad that you are missing your parents but career also most important so, try to concenterate on career its ur responsibilty to become success in your life
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
YOU ARE A WONDERFUL DAUGHTER!!! And I am sure your mom and dad will be so proud of you not just today but everyday of their life. I do feel the same way to my parents and I do love them more than myself. May God bless our parents long life and strength. Good luck to your career and all of your endeavors as well. Cheers
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