the sadness of saparation

China
June 22, 2008 4:46am CST
Some of my good friends will be sorted into another new college. I wont see them often and I can't tear myself away from them,especially a girl who always gives me care and concern as she is my real sister. ToT~~~~
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5 responses
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
22 Jun 08
Very sad and it will also breaks my heart that you know that you have to separate. But just look at the bright side. Just keep in touch and I know if a friends are friends you will have a time to meet. Or something that you'll see each other. Just think that you have to explore more yourself.
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• China
23 Jun 08
yeh,i feel relief when i think of the saparation in another way.That is ,if all of us value it ,long live the friendship will be.
@figjam00 (1445)
• India
22 Jun 08
I think separation from good friends is always difficult. But thats how life goes you meet good people and make friends and some day we have to live without them. But I think this separation isn't that heart breaking as it was. Today with the help of internet we can always be in touch with the buddies no matter where they are.
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• China
23 Jun 08
got it.All good things come to an end!!^^
• Philippines
22 Jun 08
i understand how you feel. separation is always heartbreaking. but this will not be forever. there are a lot of ways for you to keep in touch. there will be a decrease in the face time, but you can still call her or send her sms. i am sure all will be okay. you may set up a get together party with your friends once a month to make sure you cultivate the friendship. also, you will gain friends..new ones. they will gain new friends too. you can introduce your friends to your new friends and they will do the same to you. in the end, you will have more friends and you will be happier.
• China
23 Jun 08
I'm gratified that you can understand.To look at the sunny side,i will get more new friends ,in the meantime,i still have the old ones and keep in touch with them.That's great,right? ^^~~thanks a lot for your comment~~^^
@shilpa_p (198)
• India
22 Jun 08
Awww.I so get what you mean.Its extremely difficult to imagine your life without the same people who you see everyday.I'm facing the same fear at the moment.I have about one more year to go and then all my precious friends will be scattered all over the place.And theres nothing more painful than not being around each other as much.Honestly i've always been uneasy around changes since forever.But these changes are necssary as priorities keep changing as we grow older.Just look on the brighter side-theres a new world awaiting you.You can always meet your friends every opporunity you get but i think you'll be too busy to notice.But i really sympathise with you.I'm going through the same thing.Don't worry-hope for the best,say a prayer and go on.Cheers!
• China
23 Jun 08
Thanks.I like ur response which make me feel a little better now. but..actually,we'll in two different colleges and it seems that we will become the rivals to achieve the same goal ,which make me feel downhearted .
@ann61285 (60)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
Separated from your close friends are quite painful but no matter how far that you are from each other but still in each other heart both of you are still near if both of you value its friendship. At some ways, you can still contact your friends though eamil, phone or have a visit to their house. So no matter, how far friends from each other there are still ways to do reconnect its friendship.