do u accept public kissing?

@XoyyoX (1055)
China
June 22, 2008 9:29pm CST
in some countries, people, no matter they r young or not, can kiss those they love in public places, say, on a bus, at the railway station, on the road, in the classroom, etc. maybe i'm a conservative person, i can't accpet that. a couple days ago, i saw a news that in japan, some people are making Adult videos in Macdonald's, it shocked me. i wonder whether u accept public kissing? or what other culture shock do u know, tell us. thx.
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@banadux (630)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I think adult videos would be going a little too far, but I think it's good and healthy for people to be able to express their affection in public. I suppose it varies with what country you are in but in the US the only reason you would not kiss the person you love in public is if you were very shy.
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@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
23 Jun 08
yeah, i'm a little bit shy, but my girl friend sometimes kisses me in public, say, in the park. LOL
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jun 08
kissing in the public is not bad but lips to lips with feelings and matching touch your body is ver bad ! i have seen this in germany and i even shocked coz they are under 20 and its shocking.in Philippines did not seen it something like this some girls in philippines has some respect left but dont know this time its a modern time.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
24 Jun 08
what i mean is this time so many influence and my time or generation was different.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
right lol
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
i'm not sure whether public display of love like kissing or making out means fashion or modern thing.
• India
24 Jun 08
I think public kissing(of any kind from a peck to make out) would never bother me unless I see 2 people Kissing each other every other minute just for the sake of it.What I am trying to say is their when a couple start kissing each other because their is a very special reason say like 1 proposed the other and after that they go on and make out thats perfectly ok. But if I see a couple doing nothing but kissing every now and than every time they are out together well they might as well stay home.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
lol, thx
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
24 Jun 08
I don't really see many people here in Australia, public kissing. I guess when I was a teenager, I saw people publically kissing at parties. I don't really mind if people kissing in public if it is just a peck however if they were passionately kissing I would feel a little uncomfortable. I would just turn the other way. Also I think if you go to pubs or night clubs here you would probably see alot of people kissing publically, but that wouldn't bother me there as you would expect that from people who have had too much to drink, lol.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
thx for ur response from Australia. LOL
• India
26 Jun 08
As far as i'm concerned it's not really that bad kissing ur partner in public .No matter where u are showing ur affection to someone whom u love the most is not at all a big deal. U kiss ur mother,brother,father,daughter,son,...etc.... u kiss ur gal/guy too . it all depends on the mindset of the people around you . I accept that it's limited to some localities. In my country India people around you take it as a big offense and often look over this as a nasty thing and uncultured .They often take it as a negative thing. I can only say, don bother how the people around you take it ...just do it how feel lyk doing it. After all people around you may be jealous that they have not got a chance to kiss their partners in public even if they feel lyk doing so..lolz...an about the video making it's really insane to do these videos in open . If u feel(not you, it's u in general) lyk engaging with ur partner go home and do it. This is strictly not allowed in public. Enjoy the lyk bro. Ur gals kissin u in public she needs u badly. She loves u the most.She wants the people around you to know that u are in deep relationship. Just give her the warmth.Take care.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
26 Jun 08
lol, i'll choose ur as the best answer, well done, man.
@naseeha (1382)
• India
24 Jun 08
Hi Yes in our country too hugging and kissing in public is not a good thing. We are a conservative people. It is not that you should publicly announce your affection by kissing in public. A hand on the shoulder will show your affection. Thats what i think.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
thx for sharing this with us. regards
• Romania
23 Jun 08
in my country public kissing is allowed. almost everybody does it. you can see especially young people kissing everywhere. i don't mind kissing in public. i want people to know how much i love my boyfriend. but adult videos is too much. i don't approve of those.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
u r from romania, right? i got it.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Jun 08
i guess kissing on public places depends on which country you are...in my country i seldom see people kissing in public..but i do kiss my husband when we meet in malls as a form of greetings and even my daughters do that to us...im not against on kissing as long as it is jsut like a smuck or whatever..
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
i mean kissing further than just greeting each other, i mean the passionate one.
23 Jun 08
I like kissing my boyfriend in public, I mean we dont do full snogs or nothing, just peck kisses. I do like to show affection for him whether Im in public or at home. I personally dont have a problem with other people kissing their partner in public either!! I understand that in some religions/countries that it is unacceptable to show affection in public, I dont see why though!! Your in love and you want the world to know that you are happy, whats wrong with that!!!??
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
love ur response "your in love and you want the world to know that you are happy, whats wrong with that!!!??" LOL but in some countries, there must be sth wrong. coz for a long history, it's not accepted coz of their religion, u name it, esp the elder people won't get it.
@zhuuraan (961)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I accept public kissing, but only to an extent. a quick kiss is not a problem but if two people are absolutely all over each other making out, that is a totally different thing. I think that kissing should really only be appropriate to a small extent. That being said, I don't see anything wrong with expressing your love for someone else in public, even if it means climbing to the roof of the empire state building and shouting "I LOVE ___insert name___!!!" through the world's biggest bull horn.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
interesting. lol
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Here in america it is very common to see couple kissing or holding hands . I think it is okay for the most part . If it is short and sweet and the kiss doesnt last long . I dont think there is anything wrong at all with hand holding or maybe cuddling up with your honey at the park , or at the movies . i have seen couples who will take it too far in the park and it kinda was a shock to me . I know it some countries it is not allowd PDA and I think the punishment there is a little high . My one friend is from Africa and it is not common there like it is in the states.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
even in some countries of old and conservative trsditon, people of young generation love the fashion of puclic kissing or making out, say those who were born in 80s or 90s, is that right?
23 Jun 08
Sure, me and my girlfriend do all the time. I don't see why anybody else shouldn't if they want to, it's nobody elses business, if they don't like it they can turn away or close their eyes.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
do u do further than kissing? LOL, most mylotters accept the kissing but not making out or further...
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
Hello there, I am not a big advocate of public kissing that's for sure. It is not really nice to watch. It would be okay if it as juz a simple peck in the cheek or juz a simple kiss goodbye but passionate ones or French kissing ones, ughh, those are the ones that should be disallowed from public. It would be okay in places with less people like in the park or pond but in McDonalds where little children come to eat? I dont think so.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
lol yeah
@luki_aj (18)
23 Jun 08
i think kissing on public not correct, because that is public area. Kissing for my is private think, so we can express in private area also
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
where do u come from? don't u realzie that it is in/popular nearly everywhere aorund the globe? lol LOL
@hadi81 (436)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 08
i didn't care about public kissing...when they aren't did to my privacy....it's ok.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
yeah.
@Geone1 (65)
23 Jun 08
Kissing in public, as long as you are two consulting adults that agree in doing this in public, I don't think that this is a problem, mind you with me I can see why in some places it can be a case of there is a time and place for this? But everyone is different so with your own choice of freedom I would say keep it clean if it's really something you wouldn't like to see DON'T DO IT!!! LOl I would say.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
yeah, make the public affection clean, i like it. thx
@Rikza1 (295)
• Finland
23 Jun 08
I don't mind public kissing. It is all ok, but if they go all over each other in a very public place like the marketplace, I think its little too much and can disturb some people. Making adult videos in public places? Thats a little too much, I've heard about it and can only wonder why are they not fined for that.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
23 Jun 08
the video-making guys should be kicked out of the Macdonald's lol
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I dont mind seeing two people kissing as long as that is as far as it goes. When they start making out and fondleing each other, that too much. I really wouldnt want to watch them make audult movies, especially in a restauraunt. Tianna
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
23 Jun 08
absolutely right.
• China
23 Jun 08
True ,it varise with the country in live in!I am a chinese ,and personally i think we are consertive and traditional.It is rare to see people kiss each other in public places!However i think it is a healthy way for foreign friends to kiss for expressing their kindness!So we have better accept the way of kissing each other in case we may go on abroad in case one day,and we wonnot be shy in that occation!
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
that's true, it's a kind of culture shock. public kissing is common in Brazil but not in China.
• United States
23 Jun 08
i think holding hands and quick kisses are okay. but making out and doing other intimate things is meant for a certain place and time. I work in retail and when I have customers who stand there while I am servicing them and suck each other's faces off it makes me feel angry and uncomfotable. I think it's very rude.
@XoyyoX (1055)
• China
24 Jun 08
lol, in what ways did u show ur anger, snufkin?