i don't like judgemental people.

@khithi17 (764)
Philippines
July 3, 2008 10:59pm CST
you know, the ones who judge your personality without even trying to take the time to get to know you better. if they ever see something wrong with your personality, even the tiniest wrong doings, they will start rumors about it and make it a big issue. then they will talk about you and say a lot of nasty things about you which are not even true. i have encountered a lot of people like that and i don't know why they keep on doing things like that to other people...
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18 responses
@squallming (1778)
• Malaysia
5 Jan 13
It is pretty common for people to judge or have their own perception on what others do. It may not be something that can be controlled by most of us. However, we should not make our perception a big issue as it is other people's business which we should not interfere in most cases. So if one somehow judges people, please keep it to yourself as it is wrong to tell everybody about it.
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
You're absolutely right. If you can't help it and you just have to judge someone according to what you see, it is your right. But it becomes wrong and a bad thing if you share it to other people and make the person you're judging look bad. It is wrong if you make other people believe that that person you are judging is actually what you think he/she is without knowing or confirming that what you're saying about them is a fact.
@vanila (492)
• Israel
4 Jul 08
No body knows anyone anyway. what you see is what you see for the moment. but people who say nasty things are probably jealous. I can not think about any other reason that someone will do something like that. Thats part of being successful. I guess it is the way of the nuture to say to you to be humble. have a ver good day !
@vanila (492)
• Israel
4 Jul 08
Sorry, a very good day !
@lingli_78 (12862)
• Australia
4 Jul 08
well, i don't think anybody like judgemental people... i don't as well... i don't see the reason why people have the right to judge us when they don't really know us that well... the Bible says that judgement is God's right and not ours as He is the Creator and we are just His creations... take care and have a nice day...
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
I agree, only God the creator of all can really judge us because he is the one who created us. No one should be judged according to their appearance or from what they've experienced in life.
• United States
4 Jul 08
Well, truth be told, everyone judges, but their are those people who judge too much, and I really feel sorry for those people.
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
Yeah, me too. I mean, they're so busy looking through other people lives without knowing them properly and then say mean things that are not even true or they haven't even confirmed that it's a fact.
@phoenix25 (1543)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I don't like judgmental people either. I hate it when people see my young, innocent face and just assume that I'm a young idiot. I have a complex about that. I hate it when people underestimate me because of my appearance, but on the other hand I can sometimes use that to my advantage.
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
6 Nov 12
I agree. Some people may take advantage or even think you can't do anything right because you look young and if they think you are too young, they will think you are incapable of doing good things.
• United States
4 Jul 08
People like this are bored with there own lives and need to look at there own back yard first before judging someone else. people like this usually are not ones to talk and enjoy hurting others. They are mean miserable people but in the end they will get what is coming to them. It will bite them in the butt.
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
yup. they should. maybe they don't see that they are the ones that should be cleaning themselves up for all the rumors they have started...
@mialei23 (2386)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
People like that are no breeding. I guess, they tend to that because of envy. And one thing that really bothers me they will add some issue on those people they talking about. They fund of doing that, because it makes then happy. I don't like them either.
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
i think you're right, 'cause there's this one time i cried because im so hurt with what they say about me and my friends told me not to worry and not to cry anymore, " those girls say bad things about you because they are envious of you.". awwww they are so sweet right...
• Australia
4 Jul 08
There are nasty people out there in the world that dont have better things to do with there time. Alot of people do it for attention from other friends. They end up losing there friends after a while. Then they wake up to the fact that they shouldnt have been horrible from the start.
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
yeah, i hope those people realize that. they are not perfect anyway. we're all just people, we make mistakes but we do have good thing in us too.
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
Yup, we hate judgemental people. But let's make them as challenge to our everyday life. Because the more they will judge us, the more we should strive to be the better person. Our life is not tied to them instead it should anchored within the border of God. Even how terrible they will judge us, it is God who will shield us!
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
wow, thats really something. i think so too.at least now! we know ourselves better than they do. hahahah.
@lilaclady (28287)
• Australia
4 Jul 08
Yes I do hate these sorts of people as well, some people only look at the top layer but human beings are all so very complex and we all have many layers and we all have good and bad things about us...
@khithi17 (764)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
yah. you're right they're not even bothering themselves to see the good in you. right. they just wants to bring you down. but i just ignore them though they're really hurting my feelings a lot...
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
Such people eat on your negativities and try to pull you down because they see the flaws in you, be it physical, mental, or finding your peers. The best thing that you could do is to avoid them by ignoring on what they are doing, after all if you go over what they judge about it’s you who feels more insecure, so the best thing one should do is to ignore and don’t ever mind what they say, after all, it’s your life and they can’t do anything about it. You are your own freedom, don’t let anyone fall it down.
@KrauseHome (28097)
• United States
10 Dec 11
Oh how I can relate with this one, and have pretty much had to deal with this all of my life. It is like if you do not dress as nice as they do, if you are a different color, religion, etc. Personally sometimes they need to put themselves in your shoes and try to be more helpful and understanding. When in reality they never Stop to think about what if it was them until something happens and then they wish they could take it all back for sure.
• Philippines
3 Mar 10
I alsohate people who are judgemental... Okay I believe that sometimes we have bad impressions about some people, but it is not good and it is very rude to talk bad about them when you haven't talk or get to know them more before throwing bad look on them... I just came from a discussion here on mylot... And I encountered some people who are really judgemental... They condemn people without thinking the reason behind their actions and decision... I also wonder why there are people who are quick in judging... They are like close minded... I honestly, don't want to deal with them for I am easily irritated with them... it is like no matter what you say and do--- they stick to their perspective....
@kerriannc (4285)
• Jamaica
4 Jul 08
I always think it is wrong to judge and assume. I always tried to have an open mind where people is concern. Sometimes the ones that you think are the most horrible and mean hearted always turn out to be soft and loveable. Because of the circumstances that they find their lives in they tends to put on a ironclad armour. So because of this I do not make judgment.
• United States
4 Jul 08
I too do not like people like this, thats why i dont hang out with many folk.. people these days arew quick to judge someone else,EVEN WHEN they are not doing the right things in their life. some people do it so that way no one can tell the hurt and pain they hide inside... i dont worry about folks like that. there is only one true judge what the rest of people dont mean 1 thing to me.
@Kemboi (341)
• Kenya
4 Jul 08
Yes, it has been said be quick to hear but slow to respond. Such a people are overtaken by their notional. They can great many big problems we need to be carefull when working with such people of that character, so that you will not fall in the trap too. Because some of this people might be your close relatives and you cannot denounce your relationship whith them. Know their spiritual personalities and understand them more.
@nadams80 (77)
4 Jul 08
A lot of people judge me based on my race or religion. They assume things about me without knowing anything about me. Most of the judgements are based on incorrect information. I've seen alot of judgemental things here on Mylot. I've read things like, those who hate puppies are BAD people. We can't make judgements about people being good or bad based on what they like and dislike. Only God knows a person's TRUE character.
@Hatley (107138)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Jul 08
khithi17 I dont know why people have to be so darned judgmental as they do not even know the person, yet they will gossip and spread nasty rumors about this person they have never got to know at all. I think they must be lacking in something in their lives to make them act so mean and vicious. I do my best to steer clear of people like that. they drain out your energy.