if u get pregnant accidentally, will u keep it?

Philippines
July 4, 2008 4:33am CST
in our country there are fetuses who are reportedly found in the garbage, sidewalk, and worse in the toilet bowl. i dont get it why they have to resort to that. i mean they can have them taken cared of at welfare homes. it's really inhuman. for me if that happens i would keep the baby. if i cant take care of him/her i'll just have him adopted. what's your stand?
7 responses
• United States
4 Jul 08
If I accidently got pregnant...I would not get an abortion, and I would defeniatly never leave the newborn in a toilet or garbage can! I think that's sick... I mean hospitals have invented something to help teens and other women who don't want their babies. All they have to do is go to a hospital, leave the baby with a nurse and leave! The end! No need to leave the poor baby to die anywhere. But as to keeping the baby...it really depends. I think I would have to be in the moment to decide if I would actually keep it or put it up for adoption.
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• United States
18 Jul 08
I got pregnant acciently myself im currently 34 weeks pregnant I couldnt just take her life away cause I always felt such a strong bond to her even tho I was sicker than a dog in the 1st trimester and when I found out baby had only 2 vessels in her umbilical cord I couldnt terminate her so far they havent found anything else wrong with her but I do get ultra sounds every 4 weeks to check her growth and shes been a growing.
@svelte (132)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
Hi! Your question was IF YOU GET PREGNANT ACCIDENTALLY, WILL YOU KEEP IT? If I were to restate the question to, IF YOU WERE PREGNANT, WILL YOU KEEP IT? These two questions are in a way alike but entirely different right? It's because of the word "accidentally". If you planned on getting pregnant and have a baby, "definitely you will keep it". But if you did not plan it, what now? You can't just say "Ok, we accidentally made a baby let's throw it away." You see these answers your question already, just be logical then you one can be reasonable.
• India
4 Jul 08
i THINK I LL DO THE SAME THING!I can never leave the poor baby out in the cold , who knows, mayb i ll keep him, if not i ll just hand him over to ppl who needs a baby. But i dont think thats ever gonna happen. If i dont want a baby, i wont have ababy, and if i do, then i do, i wont be confused or careless enough to have when i dont want to. That would be a waste of a precious little life, who has to welcomed with joy, not with pain and grief.
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
I used to use contraceptive pills so that I won't get pregnant. Not that it's the most fitting simile, but I believed that if I wasn't capable of caring for a child anyway, I might as well make sure that one would not be formed yet. I still believe in prevention, if a girl is into that, but over and above prevention, I now believe more in the ultimate prevention: abstinence. Saves everyone from worry and a lot of anxieties. :) http://preachtomyself.blogspot.com http://nenyathegeek.blogspot.com http://mobileexpressions.blogspot.com
@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
Truly, there are mad, inhuman, uncaring, irresponsible person who throw away what they had enjoyed being done. Those little angels are the fruits of irresponsibility but they must not suffered because for God sake they have committed no mistake at all. I can't imagine how a certain person can do that to a child where there were many women who are willing to spend everything just to have one child to bear. The world is becoming more crazy these days, myself alone is longing to have a child of my own but it was not yet granted to me. My heart felt so bad for those people who can murder unborn children, they have to be responsible if not, they should have given a chance for the new life. Babies should be taken care off no matter how or what and why they are caused.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
of course I'm gonna keep the baby...i would definitely not just leave it somewhere...I wonder how those girls can survive their conscience