How to get a girlfriend? Can anyone tell me pls
By lucky38
@lucky38 (72)
Malaysia
July 5, 2008 10:26am CST
Sry to ask but can anybody tell me how to get a girlfriend pls ! So lonely!!!!!
9 responses
@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
6 Jul 08
Hi lucky38,
First of all change your name to Lucky33.
Second, don't try too hard. Don't be desperate! Be confident in yourself and smile in the knowledge that one day that wonderful lady will be sitting opposite you.
Third, girls love to be surprised, teased and treated like they are somebody special. Actually they ARE very special,so enjoy their company and their insight into life, whenever you can.
Lastly, girls love to laugh and not to feel threatened. Just be yourself! And if you are not happy with yourself,then improve yourself.
Umart
@umart13 (841)
• Ireland
7 Jul 08
Why Lucky33? Because you will be 5 years younger! :-).. No worries! Just a joke!
What Johar_ahmad wrote to you is important... Girls love guys who are funny.
Even if you try and you are not funny, you will be surprised how many girls appreciate that you make an effort.
By the way. If you are chasing after a girl and she wants to have nothing to do with you, then back off. Then the lady may lower her defences and begin to ask herself what you are really like.
Finally, (A SECRET WEAPON!) Girls actually do not like saying NO! It is against their nature.
Good luck
UMart
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
yeah right..oops.would you mind if i join responding here.?hmm.maybe i could help..i would like to give you some tips regarding this stuff..:
1.know what type of girl your're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you such as intelligence,looks,ambition,sense of humor,or respect for other's feeling.
2.Resolve old hurts and disappointments.Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.
3.Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits.Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
4.Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.:)
5.Consider any unattached girls at your school/work.Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend..:)
6.Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls.Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.^_^
7.If you have your eye on a certain girl,let mutual friends know about your interest in her.Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.
8.If you dont have the nerve to directly approach a girl who ahs caught your eye,consider being her secret admirer for a while.Send her sweet anonymous messsages or notes(with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her..
Hum..lol..i bet you can do it..remember that love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.Dont settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend.Be selective to find the right one for you..
too long but all true..^_^ hope it'd help..:)
Goodluck..
-mEi
@kianli (546)
• China
7 Jul 08
Hey, lucky38!
First i would like to say welcome to mylot, and i sincerely hope you'll enjoy yourself here.
About your question, well, according to my own experience, i'll give you my tips and hope that'll be of help.
I got three tips for you.
First, i think you need to be really gentle, a rude guy won't get a girl's heart. And besides, a love started by force or something like that will never have a good ending.
Second, patience. Sometimes when you tell girl you love her and she just walk away, that doesn't mean you failed, it only means the girl can not make a decision at that moment or she just need to evaluate you. As long as you are patient enough, you can get her.
Third, try to show the best of you to attract your dream-girl. It's a fact that everyone has good parts and bad ones, and if you can show the best of you to your dream-girl while avoid showing your "bad" part. She'll soon be yours.
I hope you'll find my answer of some kind of value.
Have a nice day and enjoy mylotting!
@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
6 Jul 08
did you try going to a night club? there are a lot of girls there just looking for men.
@Petercheung (681)
• China
7 Jul 08
well,big question
you will meet someone when the time comes up
someone is waitting for you in the corner
take care good luck!
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
5 Jul 08
The best way to get a girlfriend is to get out and meet people, make friends and be nice. The more interaction you have with other people the more people you will meet and, eventually, you will meet a girl who you are interested in getting to know better and who is interested in getting to know you better.
@humra7 (178)
• United States
7 Jul 08
The best thing you can do is to go out, hang with more people (at that way you can meet more end more people) and at the time you will meet girl you like.
Then just be you.
Try to show your sense of humor and your kindness and maybe she will like you.
It worked for me.
@ramhoneywell (415)
• India
5 Jul 08
i also have the same question to post as a discussion. guide me also.
@Johar_ahmad (419)
• Malaysia
6 Jul 08
you have to do more out activities such as, hang out at the mall. Girls only like man that has sense of humor, gentleman and etc. by now, you should know what to do...
