I'm really feeling lonely...

@Rosekitty (19500)
San Marcos, Texas
July 6, 2008 9:52am CST
I don't know whats up, but i know i feel left out..My oldest came out to visit and instead i'm alone and writing this and soon off to work..yuck..He's over at my oldest daughters and i'm sure all of them are having fun..ok..enough self pity right? Now all of you tell me what to do..should i go over there and skip work? or should i just figure maybe they are planning something for my BD next month? Help and make me laugh!!! huggles
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• United States
6 Jul 08
HI ROSEKITTY! MY GODDESS, OF COURSE SKIP WORK!!! Let someone else come in and sell the items for the day and take a break! Go over and be wiht your family! They'd love it and you feel lonely and..it would be great for you! (They can conspire about your birthday later on the phone!!) ROLL a big FATTIE, then go over! WOO-HOOOO!
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@Rosekitty (19500)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Jul 08
Hi Crone my Luv! I'm so sorry i feel i've neglected you..How's Evan? getting spoiled? Hope so! Did i ever tell you i got your letter? I always love your letters and its sitting next to me right now..I've been reading alot more and not posting alot so am slacking in this dept...just feeling the dumps feeling and need to do your response..LOL Love and miss you lots!
• United States
6 Jul 08
Don't worry here! I miss you too! We'll talk soon!!! Evan has put on a full inch in length and a pound i two weeks! I am spoiling him , then giving him back to mom, as a grandma should! Bru-hahah! CALL! I am here all day! (Check your e-mail! I'll send the number!) HUGS!
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@1richgirl (126)
• United States
6 Jul 08
My grown children get together all the time without me- It's a stage- They like different movies than mom-text while they visit each other etc. I used to feel left out but now I am so greatful that they are close. All my kids are single but one daughter- They hang out with each other, are each others best friends and I am always glad I know who they are hanging out with! Everyone once in awhile they invite frumpy mom to a show or dinner -- Don't dwell on the birthday surprise sometimes thy are just too involved with life!!
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@Rosekitty (19500)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Jul 08
Hi richgirl! well thats what it was i guess..cause my children get together also..but i went to work and they came to the store and visited with me..so i felt alot better
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@Hatley (157913)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jul 08
hi rosekitty do skip work and go see your kids and have fun' then if they are planning some surprise for you birthday maybe you will get a hint lol. have fun and enjoy your kids while your oldest son is here to visit, put a monkeywrench into their secret plans and watch them all squirm lol.they will comeup with somethingfun anyway for your birthday.
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• United States
6 Jul 08
Heck go over and crash the party MUM! you know our kids forget that we need invitations to come over, they take it for granted that we know they want our company. I for one do not like just popping in I need to be invited. But anyway, Just Go over and crash thier party, I know they will want it and the invitation is implied!
@Rosekitty (19500)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Jul 08
Angel thanks for that..if you and i were close i'm sure we'd crash alot of parties..LOL..I feel better ..went to work and they came over to visit! Now who's house do we crash first?..LOL
• United States
8 Jul 08
ut oh..-looks around at the mess- Please don't make my house the 1st on the list. I MIGHT have enough time to make it the last house thou.
@kbourgerie (8775)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I don't think anyone would ignore you on purpose. They must be up to something.You are too sweet a person to just leave sitting on your own. Not that I recommend skipping work all the time, but if your oldest is there for a visit, then why not take the day off and go and see what it is they are up to? They probably just assumed you had to go to work and would love to spend some time with you. Take a break and have fun.
@Rosekitty (19500)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Jul 08
Kat..its always good to see you and thanks for making me feel special I did go to work and they came there to visit with me..i know thats my problem i work everyday and gues i felt tired from that and wanted a break..but feel so guilty doing that..well in 2 weeks is my grandson's first BD so i'm closing that day! Hope things are better for you Huggs and Love
• United States
20 Jul 08
Thank you so much for the best response.
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
6 Jul 08
I am sorry that you are feeling lonely Kitty I think today you go to work and then see what happens when you come home and if they are still at your Daughters then go and join them, like you say they might be planning your Birthday
@Rosekitty (19500)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Jul 08
Thanks Gabs..i did go to work and then they came over to visit..it cheered me up..I'm usually never like this but guess its been a long weekend and felt a bit lonely Huggs and Love!Hope you're feeling better
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 08
I am so glad that they came to see you I know at times I get like that to I am doing ok Kitty recovery is slow but I am getting there hugs
@ellie333 (21029)
6 Jul 08
They are planning an absolutely fantastic suprise for you for next month and if you go over there instead of going to work you might just ruin it all. He needs to spend time with his sister too without mum around. My girls go off and do this to me at times too and it does make you feel a little hollow inside I know. It is unlike you to feel down or lonely, big loving huggles and hope you perk up a bit later. Mind you its your shop so you could always give them a call and see if it was ok to go over and have a day of fun instead, it all depends on how busy you are right now and whether or not you can afford to do it. By the way my innocent discussion was deleted sorry so that is why I haven't responded back. I still can't PM I'm making you what I call a cheery up cup now, a hot chocolate with squirty cream on top. Emjoy. Ellie :D
@Rosekitty (19500)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Jul 08
Hi Ellie..i know..thats whats weird i'm usually not minding anything but today for some reason i wanted attention..but i went to the store and then they called me to go have breakfast with all of them..since i was already there i told them to have fun..wll they showed up after and hung out with me..so i feel alot better. Love that hot chocolate with cream..YUMMMM
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@ellie333 (21029)
7 Jul 08
Hi Rosekitty, So in the end you got to go to work and hang out with the kids and have fun, so it didn't turn out too bad afterall eh! Glad you enjoyed the hot chocolate. Huggles Ellie :D
@MrsSweet (16)
• United States
6 Jul 08
Invite them over for a game and pizza night, after you get off work. Or go out some place together.
@Rosekitty (19500)
• San Marcos, Texas
6 Jul 08
Hi Mrs. Sweet funny you should say that i just got home and am making a pizza..i did go to work and they came over to visit with me so feel better Thanks!
@blackbriar (9126)
• United States
8 Jul 08
PSSSSSSSST- Your kids are planning a huge celebration complete with a stripper hunk jumping out of a huge cake. Don't say anything or your son is gonna whump my azz for spillin' the beans.
@ynigz1 (472)
• China
8 Jul 08
Sometimes people will really feel lonely. If you feel really lonely, please don't stay at your computer, just come out and talk to others, and doing thing in the crowd, you will not feel lonely then. I don't know whether this can help you, but it's really helpes me, when I feel lonely I always go out to the garden with my friend or just myself, then I will be full. I feeling well at garden to see them flying kite.
@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Hi Sweetie, By all means you deserve to be with them to enjoy yourself. You are there for them helping out constantly. It wasn't very thoughtful of them to not include you on the fun. Then again, maybe they are thinking of you and planning a surprise for your birthday. Sweetie, either way, they can do that over the phone. You should have popped over there. You deserve some down time too. Love ya,
• India
7 Jul 08
i am feeling lonely today....because no one is there to understand my situation...:-(
• Japan
7 Jul 08
I also feel sometimes lonely, But I try to keep myself busy in myLot. There are lot of friends online who keeps on posting on your questions. Be active and cheerful in this life
@vanities (11351)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Jul 08
just continue thinking that your children are preparing something for your birthday!! that will cheer you up a bit..if your not really feeling good to work then skip work and have fun!!
@shooie (4989)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Run around the house naked yelling I love taco's I love taco's. No really if you don't have a history of calling in and or skipping work take the day off enjoy the kids and time with them. then go back home and run around naked yelling I love taco's.