psycho!

Philippines
July 6, 2008 7:13pm CST
how would you feel if someone called you a psycho? would it freak you out? or would it makes you angry and hurt? i'm asking because a person close to me called me a pyscho because we were having a fight about resident doctors at the emergency room.. i've been to hospital because i was sick..i've been sweating so much because i was having a fever that wont lower down..i got into emergency room and i told this person that i was there..asking for the number of the hospital..well honestly i didn't know it..so called me an idiot and a pycho... if i were you? would you get hurt? or you think i'm being shallow at this? honestly i wanna know you answers
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
7 Jul 08
I would get pretty mad at first and then think to myself well this person needs to grow up. The person that called me psycho must have problems their self.
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
i'm so upset and hurt right now..this is not one of those fooling around moments..its really a fight were onto and its not an excuse for this him to call me psycho..
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
7 Jul 08
I agree witg you I would be upset also. Kind of like I was last week when a man that I talked to from HP a computer company told me becAUSE i told him I was disabled got very rude with me and said well since you can't pick up your computer I don't know how you will fix it. He was a real a_shole I was really upset. Once i got it in I got the cd/dvd player in my computer the same day it was fixed.I am not to happy with Staples or Hp anymore.
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• Philippines
7 Jul 08
oh yah i remember that post..i responded to it..that man is very rude that i wanna hit him in the head so he will come into his senses..what happened to that man? did you write a complain about his behavior?
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• Canada
7 Jul 08
I'd be upset, but I don't think I'd be that hurt. Why should I be hurt because someone else chooses o act like an idiot? My anger would motivate me to come back with something like "what gies YOU the right to call names?" The perso would proabably make a excuse, but it would not be alid.
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• Philippines
7 Jul 08
yah, i told him the same thing and it gotten into worst..
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7 Jul 08
if some one called me a psycho i would call them a psycho back the probably beat the up because i get aggravated easily
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• United States
7 Jul 08
I would probably just smile and say "Thanks! I know." I typically act crazy anyway, so if someone calls me that then it's probably not too unexpected. Usually it's just my friends who say stuff like that, and I'm never offended by it because I know that they're just joking around and they usually act as weird as I do. But if someone said that to me and seriously meant it, I still don't think that I would be really hurt by it. If the only comeback they have left is to call me some name or insult, then I know that they don't have anymore relevant arguments left. And in that case I would consider myself the victor of that fight.
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• Philippines
7 Jul 08
well reason why i got so hurt is because one, this person never really call me that..so i'm not used of this person to call me a pyscho..second, its kinda insulting when this person knew i attended psychiatric therapy because of depression on which i never wanted to go to because i know i'm not losing my mind..
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@hopejordan (3566)
• Australia
7 Jul 08
hi there angel_of_charm i know my daughter is looking after her teachers bird for 2 weeks and the bird is named psycho now thats strange take care and happy postings
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@wisedragon (2330)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
When people say bad things about you it's really about them, not you. They're the ones who are having issues. Over the years I have learned not to let things like this bother me. Let THEM be psychos. Let THEM be idiots. I won't sink down to their level.
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@DeepGlow (242)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 08
I would usually get upset if someone calls me idiot, but "psycho" is just fine by me, lol. Anyway, seriously, if the person who called you idiot and psycho is your friend who is not usually act like that, maybe he/she was just having a bad day or something. After you feel everything has cooled down, I think you better talk to him/her about it. Listen to his/her reason(s) and tell him/her that you don't like it and if possible, ask him/her to not do that again. IMHO, communication is the key. But if the person is some stranger, I think you better ignore him. Upset is fine and natural, but get hurt? I think it's not worth the pain. You'll only going to hurt yourself even more by letting yourself get hurt because of that. Just forget him.
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• Philippines
7 Jul 08
me, i will feel bad for him calling me a psycho... he'll lose a friend because of not being careful of what he says...he's being tactless...though sometimes it might be a joke...but i think nobody wants to be called a psycho...
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Yes, I would feel very bad.. I would want to go into a hole and crawl, to never return..
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@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 08
Who wouldn't? how dare that person labeled me for what I am not. I will give that person a killer's stare and let him/her feel the the guilt.
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@coffeeshot (3786)
• Australia
7 Jul 08
It depends how they said it, the tone they used etcetera. I call my brothers psychos all the time but in a joking way. Was your friend calling you psycho simply because you couldn't find the hospital? It doesn't sound very nice,e specially when you're worried about your health. If this person's friendship is important to you, perhaps you can confront him/her about it and let them know that you were a bit offended by what they said. Otherwise you can just limit your contact with them because if they are going to hurt your feelings like that then they're not worth keeping as a friend. Good luck.
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I think that isn't much of a friend! I would find another one.
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@blackbriar (9080)
• United States
8 Jul 08
Depends on if they are joking or not. Usually people call me psycho because of the strange remarks I sometimes make. I don't take it to heart thou. In your case, calling you idiot and a psycho just because you were asking about a phone number isn't right. I would be hurt and angry as well.
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• Philippines
11 Jul 08
your right, it always depends on how they say it and depends on the situation we were having..this person had said it sarcastically rude to me..there is no joke in here...he was mad and i am also so he called me a pyscho...
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
good day... Honestly I won't be offended or get hurt why? cause it ain't true. But this what I'm gonna do after that person told me that I would file a complaint in the hospital administration stating how rude that person is with me. There let's see who is the real psycho now.
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@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
Hi angle_of_charm! How are you doing now? Are you still in the hospital? I hope you will be fine soon. Sorry I missed you the other time you came here at our place. Regarding this discussion, yes of course I will get hurt but maybe, that person just don't know what to do at that time. Maybe he or she is worried and felt so helpless and I know it may be unfair calling you a psycho, he or she may not just can't handle his/her fears or helplessness over your condition. Maybe he/she panic and he/she can't contain himself/herself. But saying all these, I still feel that it is unfair of her/him to call you that. I am really sorry that you have to go through that. You are always in my prayers my friend. Take care and God bless!
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