Lights on or Lights off

@myahw20 (1116)
Canada
July 8, 2008 1:13pm CST
Are you comfortable of doing it with lights off or lights on?
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15 responses
• United States
10 Jul 08
Well for the most part I prefer making love in the, however, Tuesday night, the lights were on and it didn't bother me one bit. My mind was on better things than the lights.
@dix19on (118)
• United States
11 Jul 08
hi linda no light for me i like it and the dark.when finshing a good f--- i look to go right to sleep and i do not sleep while and the day time.
@Phlamingho (7834)
• Denmark
10 Jul 08
Both are great - mostly lights on, I prefer to be able to see what I'm "working with" :D
@Elixiress (3893)
10 Jul 08
I prefer it when the lights are off, because I think that it is more intimate, but I am not self conscious and I will do it with the light on as well.
• Colombia
10 Jul 08
I don't like lights completly on or off jejeje I mean, halfdarkness, not to avoid to show my body or something like that, but because it's more romantic and you can still seing your couple's body ;-)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I like the lights off and a candle going. It is more romantic.
@alliepoo (32)
• Jamaica
9 Jul 08
well it all depends if i am doing it with someone for the first time but been as how i have a steady partner now,i'll just crawl on top of him while he is reading ,watching t.v etc.i am not scared of the lights no more.bye
• India
9 Jul 08
It is better if dimlight is there, instead of total darkness. Dimlight helps to enjoy the body complexion of the partner, observe the facial expressions,etc. So have dimlight of favourable colour.But if the partner doesn't wants it, let his/her will be carried out.Sometimes, in high mood, even bright light will not be cared-as we do it in the day time also.
@Danny08 (398)
• Canada
9 Jul 08
Lights off will be better....but, DOING in front of fireplace....will be more romantic....it brings both partners in a really high mood....any thoughts?
• United States
9 Jul 08
wife is ashamed of her body, so she has to have the lights off. Me too encourages exploration.
@Kemboi (340)
• Kenya
9 Jul 08
It depends upon the condition and situation of where you are. May be you are living in a slum place like refugees, you will have to consider what time to do. May be the nature of your work determines at what time you should do too. So there be light or no light you will have to do. The condition of nature should not scare in a true love.
@relundad (2312)
• United States
9 Jul 08
It doesn't matter to me whether the lights are on or off. I prefer not to have the same experience over and over again. My partner and I often switch all aspects of our love life. Keeps it interesting and never knowing what to expect. We both enjoy spontanity so sometimes when the mood hits the lights are on. Or we are in the kitchen...lol
• United States
8 Jul 08
Lights on or lights off? Well that is all dependent on the mood or the self-esteem level I'm at that day. Sometimes having the lights on calls to much of my own attention the areas I'd like to hide. Soft, flickering candlelight is the most flattering light for lovemaking. However, having the "house" lights on can add a daring spark to the mood. I encourage you and everyone to experiment. I have found experimenting with different lighting to be exciting and it has helped with my own body image and a good body image is quite the aphrodisiac.
@Balozi (244)
• Kenya
8 Jul 08
Unless you are stealing, this good thing must be done in full lights.
@rafauk (14)
8 Jul 08
lights off with candle lights is the best, lights on is not so sexy i think, lights off is better more touchy feeling and its more interesting!
@baileycows (3669)
• United States
8 Jul 08
I dont mind lights on or lights off depends. I actually like it best though when it is dark with maybe a night light. Sometimes just actually lights on can kill the mood.