abortion
By gelaware
@gelaware (116)
United Arab Emirates
July 10, 2008 2:18am CST
A friend of mine ( not really a friend but i know him for a little time ) came to me asking to help him about his problem. He ask me if i know some kind of medication to abort a baby. I ask him why? and he told me that his girlfriend is pregnant for one month and he told me that they are not supposed to raise the child because he has a family and his girlrfiend also has the same problem with him. I told him that i dont know any kind of medication for aborting the baby and that is that the truth i really dont know anything and even if i know i would not going to tell him because i know it is a sin. He always keep on calling me and asking for help but what should i tell him.Should we help him or should we let him solve his problem. I dont want to answer his call anymore.
3 responses
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Well if I were you I would say it infront of him where you stand, you do not believe that abortion is the best solution to problem and you are not a supporter of abortion. I think from doing that he won't ask for help from you anymore. Influencing him at this moment I believe is not going to work as he is in crisis. I hope that he realizes his mistake and must face the consequences for their wrongdoing.
@gelaware (116)
• United Arab Emirates
10 Jul 08
As i am against to abortion and believing that it is a sin without forgiveness to anyone whos doing it; the reason that i dont want to face him now is at what you are saying. He did it and he should solve his problem though in a way that i already told him that i cannot help him. I already give him some dvice not to abort the child.Thanks for your response.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
10 Jul 08
Abortion is a sensitive subject and it is a very difficult debate for me to get into. I personally am very against it after I saw the film "The Silent Scream". If you really want to influence someone , then ask them to watch this film. Its probably on youtube as well. There is also a website you could visit http://www.silentscream.org/.
@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Like others stated here, I'm very much against abortion... Weather to help him or not is, of course, your choice... They say, it's easy to stick by your beliefs when the times are easy... Make your stand & flat out tell him you will not help him abort the baby because weather it's right or wrong, it's against your belief to go through abortion & for you to assist someone in doing so... If you're willing to help him through the process of giving him advice on where to go & who to talk to, then yes, put an honest efforts into looking for alternative means to an abortion... There're times to be nice & there are times to stand by your conviction... When you say he's keeping calling you & asking for help, what kind of help is he looking for? Finding a means to abort the baby? If that's the case, I'd tell him, "Look! I'm completely against abortion... Even if I had a knowledge of how to, weather by pills or abortion clinic, I wouldn't tell you because that would go against everything I believe... I don't appriciate you keep calling me & asking me to put aside my beliefs... What you believe & what you do with your belief are your business... Don't call me again to help you with this abortion ever again!!!" That should take care of the calling part...
