If you face it,how to do u will?

well, its the reality.. many people just befriend us for their own good, and just promise us to return the kindness you've rendered to them.. consider the circumstance that maybe he don't mean to leave you in a hanging situation, or its just that he has a more personal-important matters to do.. Now, if the same situation happened manny times, then it's him who has the problem..but don't let them bother you, and at that attitude, i'm sure that's there's more in your group, or maybe other people who knew that person too who experience the same thing that you do.. you may confront that person if he keeps on doing that to you, meaning he had done it not only once, twice, but thrice!!.. its the best time to slack him off of his bad attitude.. if you're really a friend to him or if you still consider him as your friend, then you'll tell him about his unkindly,wrongly attitude..

I think whenever we help someone,it's better we don't expect the person we help to give us any help in future. Without expectation,we will help the person with our sincere heart. So I think it's nothing out of expectation if one day the person you help before,refuses to give you any help. Let us solve our problem ourselves.

I will not talk with the person again and don't trust him any more.Because a person who don't give others a hand can't be a loyal friend.