Is chemistry important?

United States
July 18, 2008 4:28pm CST
A friend of mine just recently broke up with a man that on the paper was the ideal man. Yet she said there was just "no chemistry" with him. He was totally inlove with her and thought my friend was the answer to his prayers. I really wanted their relationship to work but after 2 months of "tryin" to develop some feelings for him, she just called it quits before he became more deeply involved. I thought my friend was crazy for letting him go, but I also thought that chemistry is a must. Any thoughts?
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
18 Jul 08
I believe it's a must! I mean without it nothing else matters! it's the main thing on which I would build a relatin.. well along with some other factors, but yeah it takes the lions share!
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• United States
18 Jul 08
Yes. Chemistry is definitely a must. That is how the person feels wanted when the other person is attracted to them. It just makes the relationship easier to work instead of "trying" hard to get through it due to lack of attraction. No matter how nice the person is and how good they are, it isnt going to work if you dont feel the least bit attracted to them, unless you fake it and that would just become painfully miserable after a while.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
20 Jul 08
Yup.. Chemistry is a must in a relationship ^_^ I guess nobody will take their partners to be opposing against most of his/her ideas and thinking towards things.. So chemistry is important in a way that both are on the same wavelength and it's easier to communicate too ^_^
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
18 Jul 08
You can't help how you feel or don't feel about a person so, yes, I think that chemistry is important. At least your friend gave it a decent try..two months is a good amount of time to get to know someone and see if anything is there.
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
18 Jul 08
I think its very important!
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
18 Jul 08
you think?? YOU THINK?? i think you are 100% sure it is important! as i have witnessed the chemistry you got with your guy! well, few days are left and you too are gonna enjoy each other right?
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• United States
20 Jul 08
em]wub[/em]Yes I guess 100% Chemistry! I can't wait to be with him!
• United States
20 Jul 08
chemistry hmm it's important jus like ave said , few days lol , and we gonna enjoy all THE CHEMISTRY lol love you