Do you mind if someone critics on your dressing?

@yenwie84 (1344)
Malaysia
July 19, 2008 11:47am CST
I think most of the girls are very sensitive to this. If someone critics about your sense on fashion, how do you feel? Will you just accept the comment or will you start to hate the person? I had this experience before. I went out shopping with a colleague. I was trying on a shirt,he said I looked fat in that shirt. That moment, I felt like I wanted to give him a slap,lol. It's always not nice to critic people on how they dress up. Anyways, I will never do that to people. I think everyone should have their right to wear what they want to. Do you agree with me? Please share
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22 responses
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
Whatever you felt was normal. But you must also realize that sometimes, people would comment on whatever you wear because they actually care how you would look.. It wasn't meant to criticize you. You just need to take it positively and at least appreciate that at least, somebody can be very honest with you. Let's admit it, we wouldn't know how we look from other people's point of view, right? So there is your mirror. Although,I agree that everyone has the right to wear whatever they like. So if you feel good about a particular clothes, it doesn't really matter what others are thinking..Go ahead, flaunt it!
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@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
[b]Critisizing others of how and what they wear has two results. The positive side is that it will make the person aware of what's wrong with her style. And she will value more your opinion the next time you comment. The negative result is that she will be angry. And she wont talk to you again.[/b]
@Galena (9110)
20 Jul 08
and who would you be to tell someone you think something is wrong with how they dress. they might love how they dress, and think you look a complete state. no one has a right to tell others what to wear.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
I'm a guy so fashion is not such a big issue for me. I don't really care if people think I dress sloppy. I only dress up nice when I'm going out on a date.
@gemini_rose (16264)
20 Jul 08
If someone wants to make a comment on something I wear then they can please themselves. They can say what they like but if I like the clothes that I wear or I am trying on then I am not going to listen unless I agree with them! If someone asks me what I think to something they are trying on I would be honest with them but I would never be rude and say that they looked fat, there are nicer ways of putting things without being rude about it.
• Malaysia
20 Jul 08
I will mind if someone critics my dressing. I have my own way to dress up. I like comfortable and casual wear. Currently my company allow mt to do so, I feel nice about it. It's not necessary to dress up like over pretty while I wouldn't meet up with any customer. I like comfort.
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
I don't mind at all.I am not that sensitive type of person.Criticisms are fine with me.Anyway..you'll still be the one to decide what to do and what you want to wear..as long as you are comfortable about the way you look...it will look best on you.
@Galena (9110)
20 Jul 08
if someone criticises my taste in clothes, then really their opinion isn't worth squat. I may not know or care what's in fashion, but I do have a great sense of style and individuality in my clothing. if people don't like it, they're clearly only interested in what magazines tell them they should wear. I wear what I like. I don't dress for other people.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
20 Jul 08
I've never really cared. If I like what I am wearing, I wear it. I used to make all my own clothes and had so many and they were all stylish and nice. If someone didn't like it, I didn't care. I liked it. I even wore things like orange nylons and pink ones and bright blue ones! THey were cute and fun and different (not that I was real different I am rather tailored in my style) but they just went with the outfit and I enjoyed wearing them. Other girls would stare and sometimes I'd tell them "I got them at....whatevet the high price store was back then - now I'd a said "got them at Neiman Marcus if you'd like to get yourself a pair". THey'd look at me so odd, like they just got caught with their hand in the cookie jar and I'd just walk on away! I loved doing that!
@junwei (8)
20 Jul 08
i do not mind because i am who i am
@mandykaren (2040)
19 Jul 08
I would actually appreciate someone to be honest and tell me the truth if something didn't look right on me.. Obviously i would feel a little upset if just come straight out and said that makes you look fat lool but i would take notice, listen and not wear it, in fact id probably throw it out or at least never wear it again haha
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
" I dont care " this is usually we said to our self if someone cretics the way we dress. We can still felt insult.Sometimes we will be embarass specially when other people heared the cretics.
@Scarrlet (168)
• Ukraine
19 Jul 08
I don't mind other criticizing my clothes. Most of the time I am 100% that what i wear is comfortable and suits to me. if people whom I admire make a notice on my clothes I would also take it into consideration. If those whom I disrespect criticize me, I actually don't care. What bothers me the most is criticizing my outfit with the purpose of bringing me down.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
19 Jul 08
As woman that would be the worst thing if they would do critics on the way we dressed but in my opinion we are in a free country in which we all have our owned decision and choiced in the way we dressed up and I only accept critics from others if it is from my Mother, Husband and family but for others it is a big NO.......
19 Jul 08
I think that it is a strange topic. with some people ( mainly who you are interested in )you want them to tell you things to make you feel good, whereas if you are with close friends, most dont seem to mind as much if they tell the truth
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
19 Jul 08
well i don't really care if someone criticised my dressing. i'm a comfort above all else person. i must feel comfortable in what i am wearing. i've got people saying that i should wear more of this or more of that. i couldn't be bothered as i know i won't feel comfortable in it. money is another issue with me. i don't see the point of spending a lot of money on something that is meant to cover me up. so i just wear what i want to wear. cheers ;p
@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
19 Jul 08
Really I don't give a d@mn what people think about the way I dress. I dress in the style I like, and for comfort. And I don't pay much attention to what anyone else wears either. So yes, they should dress how they choose, just as I do.
19 Jul 08
Hello yenwie84, Well I think you have the right to wear whatever you want to it you and no one else if you feel comfortable with it so go for it I do when people say oh that is horrible how can you like that I say well I do and I'm the one thats wearing it. So don't pay any attention to any one who insults you. Tamarafireheart.
@MizukiZHR (611)
• China
19 Jul 08
Yes,yenwie,I mind it and I think it is impolite.I absolutely agree with you and I also won't to do this thing.It is too bored because everyone has his/her individual fondness and we shouldn't say whether it is right or not.
@scaflone8 (190)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
I agree with you that we have the right to wear what we want to wear. I'm particular with the latest and most trendy on fashion.. i wear clothes which i am more comfortable with.. no matter how nice you look wearing clothes that are in. it beats wearing clothes which you are more comfortable with..When someone criticizes me on how i wear. I just say "ok" and ignore it. they have their right to have their own opinion but we also have the right to wear what we want. So best way to do is listen and ignore.. hehee Take care ~Scaflone~
@amvinay (122)
• India
19 Jul 08
yes i agree,but you should take others suggestion not always agree wht they say ,specilay gals have this habbit of picking or dressing or shopping with a gal is something you searching in a ocean ......