Is a night club a good place to find a lover?

@valeria1 (2721)
United States
July 22, 2008 11:29am CST
What do you think about flirting and starting a relationship with someone that you met in a night club? Do you think that can last or everyone in a night club is there just to have some casual flirting or casual something?
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9 responses
• United States
23 Jul 08
Um...I would say no. I wouldn't dare try to start up a relationship with someone in a club. Clubs are places that people go to dance, drink, flirt a little, then go home...........that's it!
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
it's not the appropriate place for me, but it can actually work. i mean, if you'll ask me, i dont take those men seriously when i met them from those places. but then again, that's just for me, it could be different for anybody. and love, besides, doesnt choose a particular place. it can bloosom anywhere, anytime, between anybody. so the place is nothing important when it comes to relationships, it's how the two of you feel for each other.:)
@alpha7 (1910)
• France
23 Jul 08
You can find a friend in a night club,good friends become lovers atimes. But,personally i believe that the best place to find a Wife or husband is either School,place of work or a place of worship if you are a believer.
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• United States
22 Jul 08
I wouldn't say a night club is the best place to meet a lover.. Now a bar where you can acually hear the person talking but also have music playing is a great place to meet someone. A night club is to loud and can't hardly hear that person talking how are you to get to know someone when you can't even hear them.. I would bar is a nice place to meet someone...
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@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
lol relationship in night clubs dont last long coz its all about flirting & having some fun.. no strings attached..
• Malaysia
23 Jul 08
Night club is a place for you to look for one night stand or just flirt around.. Not such a nice place to look for lover as ppl there are just looking for fun.
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@roshand8 (1478)
• Sri Lanka
23 Jul 08
I think the place is not the point,it's all about the person.We can even meet a murderer at the church too..cheers...
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
26 Jul 08
Perfect opinion, I totally agree with that!
@relundad (2310)
• United States
23 Jul 08
Everyone in the night club is not there for casual encounters or casual flirting. I personally will attend a night club because I like music and people. And unless you throw a party you arent likely to find them both at the same place. I have met people that I ended up dating or people that I have become great friends with. I think their is a huge percentage of people that go with the intent to meet someone but not all. One thing that you can be sure of is you already have something in common if you both ended up in the same place. I also think that it depends on the atmosphere of the night club that you attend. If you are at a club and everybody is between 21 and 23, over half the womens body is showing and all of the guys have their pants hanging below the waste, they are probally looking for their next bed buddy. But if you are attending a classy, upscale night club chances are people are their to meet classy people, drink, dance and mingle. And its very possible that Mr./Ms. Right is in the crowd. To be perfectly honest if I had to take a role of the dice and pick one, I'd take my chances at the night club rather than someone on the other side of a computer online.
@Ricky007 (512)
22 Jul 08
i don't think night clubs are the suitable place to find a lover..its good only for flirting and to have casual friends..we can't find a life long friends there..atleast i have never found suchthing there..
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
23 Jul 08
Thank you for your answer, but really we never know. I found 2 very long time bfs in Clubs and was quite serious, so it depends of what you want!