What will you do when your brother chooses her girlfriend instead of you?

Philippines
July 28, 2008 11:47am CST
I hate to tell this but, it makes me explode my heart. My brother and her girlfriend live in the same apartment with me and some of our boarders... One dya, her girlfriend enter my broter's mp4 in my computer which resulted in virus and shutting it down... i got mad and when I confronted my brother he ingnored me. I can't confront her loving gf because when I did, my brother told me to go away from the apartment!!! I love ym brother but it seems that he don't love me anymore. She loves her new girlfriend now, Now I feel so sad and alone.... What will I do./.
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6 responses
@academic2 (7010)
• Uganda
28 Jul 08
will completely understand him-the kind of love my brother gives me must not have to any where near the one he gives his potential life partner-we are brothers, fine, but we are not going to live for life as soul mates, it is my duty to find my own girl friend and treat her with a super love! It is stupid to want to be treated with gretater love by your brother- when it comes to respect, yes, he should respect me, but when it comes to favors and affection, it must be the girl friend!
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@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
28 Jul 08
ohhh mariechin....I m sorry that u faced this problem....its really sad to have such situation .....I suggest u someway out 1)Make ur computer password protected 2)ALthough it makes less sense but if u r brother dont care or dont love you I suggest u to...dont give weightage to your brother also... 3)start avoiding them most of time and be busy with some work or computer or TV or go out for some purpose 4)Dont confront at any cost because it makes things worst. 5)Yes one more thing....mylot is great site work on it or similar ...u will never feel alone 6)And get good friends and some money also. All the very best ... Thanks Ganesh
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
Thanks for the comment. It really makes me feel accepted and belong to a group..
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
28 Jul 08
Hey u r always welcome .....I m satisfied that u r feeling accepted and confident ...... Dont worry be happy sometimes such situation comes out of our wish....but we shud not get disheartened .....ok All The Best !!! Thanks Ganesh !!!
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@Kanutchie (343)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
hi mariechin, your narration tells that your brother Love your girlfriend more than you. there is another way to make all things in balance. you have to put patience in all problem that you will going to face together wuth the gf. Next time when you have problem tell the problem to your brother in a nice way with a low tone of voice. Because if you had that kind of way , your brother will be forced to bring those PC to the repair and dont ever blame the gf bec he will going to conclude why the pc is busted. He is the responsible person who will brong that to the technician bec she knew that his gf used it.Show respect to the gf even you are really mad. in that way you will be respected too and he will not forced you to live if you love her gf you will be loved too. take care
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
Thank you for the comment. I already told it in a low tone voice but it seems that sibling really just wanted to rise up the heat before doing something... I lose my patience and boom!!
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
I will be hurt terribly if my brother chooses her girlfriend over me. That's very unfair. But honestly you and your brother should talk about it. Settle your differences and live in peace.
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
The only thing that I want is justice... You know, it make me feel bad..
@excellence7 (3477)
• Mauritius
28 Jul 08
Let time do its work. But in my case, I would have done nothing and accept everything. Because I would prefer his happiness as my brother is also my best friend ever.
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@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Jul 08
hi mariechin you must realize that your brother now has a girlfriend which he loves and itws a different love than that of a brother towards his sister. so give him so give him some slack. He will come around eventually but right now is in the throes of a new love.
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