I just read a "dear abby" and want your thoughts PLEASE...

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Here is the link - The one I want to talk about is the second "question" http://news.yahoo.com/s/ucda/20080729/lf_ucda/wifewholeftandnevercamebacknowtalksofcominghome AS QUOTED FROM THE SITE: [i]DEAR ABBY: My son-in-law, "Tony," is very ill and probably won't make it. It is a terrible tragedy for our family. He will leave behind a bereft wife and children. During his last crisis I traveled across country to support my daughter, "Janet." My husband, "Doug," isn't Janet's father, and now he says he doesn't want me going to the funeral. He says I have spent enough time on Tony, and my visit was a "waste of money." He says Janet wanting me there is a ploy -- that she's "playing me." Granted, she had some hard feelings when I divorced her father and married Doug, but we have made up. I feel I need to be at the funeral to support her. There has been no love lost between Janet and Doug. He does not get along with his own kids from a previous marriage either. But should this interfere with my attending the funeral? Doug says my going would be a betrayal to him and has threatened divorce if I go. How should I handle this? -- TORN IN DES MOINES [/i] Alright so what are your thoughts about the husband "Doug"?? My thoughts are WOW insensitive butthole! What would you do if you were in the womans situation? I didn't quote Abby's response because I want yours - If you want to see it please follow the link. My BIG question is what would you do in this situation???