here is no friendship on mylot

August 3, 2008 10:26am CST
well...when i put this discussion here i do not want to request your responds..i just want to say...here is no friendship.. yeah..the day i login in mylot..and add few friends ..i know mylot is a site which can pay you money..yeah ..i join in it.. i really do not want to earn money..i just want to make friends here..i still remember when i first star a discussion here after i got 3 responds.. i felt happily..and i respond them..times went by..i felt everyone just aims earn money..no friendship here..all they respond you just wanna you go their site..and after that they can earn little money...maybe this it not true..but these just what i want to say...right or not...up to you...
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18 responses
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
3 Aug 08
People do go on this site for different reasons. To make friends, get some information they could use and yes, to make some extra income. I am sorry if you feel that you can't find friends here. I hope you continue to come to this site and associate with us.
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3 Aug 08
Hello nichola, Well to me when I first came on Mylot I did not know that Mylot pay you I just started making friends which I wanted to do and now I have friend I could talk to and have lots of laughs as well as tears and also give advice and take advice, I like my frieds very much and I am not here for the money, if Mylot take away the moneyside of the website I'll still be here because thats what counts friends. I'm sorry you feel like that. Tamarafireheart.
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@aj2006 (1534)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
dhang is right...try to be active, interact with the friendly myLot people and you'll be very excited everytime you visit myLot site. When I was a newbie here, I even feel depressed that I don't have a lot of friends, what I did is simply post and participate into the discussions here, and voila! I got a helpful friends here and myLot really is a good site..I hope you'll be happy here in myLot like me too. love & light.
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
3 Aug 08
It does seem like that when you are new. You only have 17 posts which is like a half a day's work for some mylotters...a drop in the bucket really. And that's not putting you down , we've all had only 17 posts to our credit and we've all felt a bit on the outside of things. You'll see in time that more people care more about the friendships than the money. You just have to keep posting, join more interests, seek out people that you have things in common with or that you admire. You will form friendships soon enough, it just takes time and effort.
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@ramangill (1479)
• India
3 Aug 08
i am also new on this site,,and i also feel a bit of that most of the people here are there for money..because i started a discussion which i think was good and sound to discuss,,but i got only five responses out of which one was of my friend's response.. and people who post questions like 'how many hours on net??' which are posted hundreds of times gets like 20 responses. so somewhere i feel that many people here post just for the sake of posting. but i must confess that i joined this site to earn a little money.and now i have started loving this site.i don't know why. peace.
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• United States
3 Aug 08
Most people are here to make a little money. You will find though most people respond to discusions because they are really interested and really like to help people by responding to questions and life stories. I am sure after you have been here for a while you will see that. The good thing is you are makinf=g a littl money also. Hang aroun you will see. Good luck
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
4 Aug 08
i think it is too early for you to make a judgement like that... you only have 18 posts so far as i can see... so you are fairly new here and there are still long way for you to go and experience the full swing of mylot... friendship does not take one day to build... it takes time... i had been here for almost 2 years now and even then i don't dare to say that there is no friendship here... many people had experienced the amazing friendship that they can feel here... give yourself some more time and open up yourself a little more to other users here... then you will find a friend here... take care and have a nice day...
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
4 Aug 08
well i must disagree because i feel as though i have made some genuine friends here on mylot. Maybe because I have no desire for the money here on mylot, i have recently started donating anything i earn to charity (cancer research) so im not exactly chasing the cents by making responses, lol. By the way, if i ever add someone to my list and they send me to their site, i immediately remove them blessed be
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Aug 08
well if that what you think then so be it...you are entitled to your own opinion regarding this site...i guess your still very new here or a newbie to be exact basing on your points earned beside your avatar...well anyway its a good thing that you had posted this one maybe it can enlightened you more on how this site works..
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
4 Aug 08
Hi NicholaYa first of all Happy friendship day! I am sory if you feel that way, may be every one are very busy in their life and that's why they might not concentrate Mylot friends but if you start any discussion which is real like ,I mean the way you felt now or to share your joy or sorrow every body will be there to respond you and also they will show their love on their discussions. I mean if you need the friends they and me are always there for you. I ofcourse will never forget you as my friend.
• China
4 Aug 08
Frankly, i login in mylot, just because i want to improve my english.Bdfore i never knew it is a place to earn money. But i think it is very good, earning is not in contradiction with making friends.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Hi there. First of all welcome to mylot. Since you are new here, I suggest that you keep posting and adding friends so that members here will know you more better. I felt the same way on my first days here, but time passed that I got to meet friends and I assure you that members here are very friendly. HUGZ! Please accept my friend request.
@misty99 (736)
4 Aug 08
Hi there nicholaYa...must admit i was once after the earnings.Maybe until now but the friendship in here over weighs that.I was once like you....felt like i don't belong.But that's just the beginning once you get the hang of it i'm sure you'll enjoy mylot.Keep on posting good topics..as they say anything under the sun!Start with responding as much topic that interest you,by then mylotters will get to know you and that's where the joy of riding/posting/mylotting starts.
@NrgDfenZ (1810)
• Belgium
4 Aug 08
I think when you get a few more posts you will start to know some people who will usually check what you post, you may always add me to your friends xD Anyone off you people can do that :)
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
3 Aug 08
i am sorry if you feel that way. i have been here for more than two years now and i gained really a lot of friends. i even became a godmother to one of myLot member's baby a year ago. anyway, in this world, it's difficult to find true people and true friends. there are some who are just interested in having money but there are also some who, after sometime, you get to know each other and become real friends. in the real world or here in myLot, find friends are really not that easy. usually, it takes time and effort. i hope you get to find real friends here.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
4 Aug 08
no i think you have to wait further. i have seen here very nice sincere friendship going on. may be most are here for some money, but the friendship is still here
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
It's undeniable that people are here for money but friendship is something that we welcome with open arms as well. I've made friends here in mylot. I don't expect to have close friends though, that would be very hard to achieve since this an online discussion and some relationships will also be online. But I do believe that I'm corresponding with real people, who can give me real answers. There have been so many times that I asked really baffling questions and mylot community has rescued me with sincere and stress-relieving answers, if that isn't friendship, then I don't know what to call it... You'll get there too.. It doesn't automatically happen after 18 posts, that's a general fact. Good day to you and happy posting!
@skenthal (1020)
• Turkey
3 Aug 08
lol i m in the same position now too :(