I'm Jealous :(

@lisa0351 (303)
United States
August 11, 2008 12:27pm CST
Last night we went to see a concert and the lead singer was gorgeous. My husband kept joking with our friends that she was hot, and kept looking at her, etc. He kept making comments on how gorgeous she was. I found myself getting really jealous without even knowing I was! Anyone ever had an experience like this with your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife? I knew he wasn't going to hit on her or anything like that, but still it made me feel jealous of her!
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@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Hi Lisa, if he kept repeating it over and over I think I would get quite embarrassed about it. I mean if he commented once, that would be fine but it seems rude to be saying over and over how hot another girl is over and over again. I dont know, maybe its just my insecurities speaking, but I would be pretty upset with him. Hugs, Tianna
@lisa0351 (303)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I was embarrassed! I just kind of sat there like, ok, you've allready told me she was hot five times! I think its just a man thing...he was with his friends and all, but still, he shouldn't have said it with me standing right there!
18 Aug 08
It is normal to feel jealous in such cases. Anybody would be jealous in such situation. If you become too jealous, you do the same. Comment on some guy and see his reaction........lol
@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
he's just trying to see how'd you react. he wants to know if you care for him. i mean, i get jealous sometimes when my bf comments at how pretty the girl that just passed by. how gorgeous the singer is in one of the bands that performed. i dont want to sometimes but it gets to me. i try not to let him see that im jealous. he gets irritated when i do that. :)
@deb8er (49)
11 Aug 08
You should be flattered! He is with you and knows what hot looks like! And you are IT! That should make you very proud to know that he is happy to be with you. All men look at pretty girls, they are wired that way. Believe me, I know as I have four brothers.
• Indonesia
11 Aug 08
hi lisa, i know what you felt. but yes you are right he wasn't going to hit on her. that's ok. i will also be jealous if my girlfriend admires another guy, though he is pierce brosnan
• United States
11 Aug 08
Yes i find myself getting jealous all the time about my husband and my husband is really good at making me jealous... By saying that like she is hot or she is pretty and stuff like that.. Although he is getting better at not making me jealous.. Yes i have foud myself geting jealous without even knowing... I have a really low self esteem so if there is any girl that is hotter than me in the room with my husband i get really jealous of her.. I get jealous alot...