Make or break a marriage
August 19, 2008 9:45am CST
Marriages are made only to be broken? Yah,trend nowadays is similar to that! Even in orthodox families the rate of broken marriages is going up stadily! Who is to be blamed? The culture or the people? Their expectation? Let us be positive, when it comes to making a marriage work who is the onus on? Husband, wife, or the people around them? Your views and comments, please.
• United States
20 Aug 08
I believe that most divorces are caused by people's attitude. They get married with the idea that if it doesn't work out, they can always get a divorce. Then, when the road gets a little rocky, they divorce. Most people today seem to have this attitude.
19 Aug 08
Hello,Queen!Breaking in marriage is rampant now a days because the couples do not understand the feelings of each other.they are running after expectations and when they failed in their mission they preferred to breakup relationship.the relationship can't thrive without bondage,love, faith and regards.these things have no meaning with most of the couples now a days.that is why there is large scale divorce cases observed in these days.thanx.
19 Aug 08
i think the rate of separation is increasing its only due to the lack of understanding, lack of compromise, more expectations, these r the few basic reasons why marriages r breaking n also these r the few basic points to rememeber when u r getting married. marriage greatly needs commitment, understanding, trust, compromise. if u r not ready to follow this points then its hard that ur marriage is not going to last long n have very less chances to be stable. i dont think the phrases orthodox, culture have any effect on this nowadays atleast , a person is free to feel n think n take decisions whichever he feels right. its very few ladies who just coz of their family, parents n childrens copromise to all problems n stay back with a person unwillingly.