How many of you are scared yo hold newly born babies?

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@brisk123 (2823)
India
August 23, 2008 11:52am CST
I have found that most of the people, even women are scared to hold and handle new born babies.I am not scared to hold them and take care of them, only when the baby start crying a lot non stop,this makes me really scared.How about you?
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11 responses
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
23 Aug 08
I'm not afraid to hold newborns. I was around babies from the time I was really young. So i was holding newborn babies before I knew that it was a scary thing to hold a newborn baby I have three of my own now so I'm used to it even more from taking care of them.
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
This is good.You have so much to share and experience.You had gain experience and knowledge even before you have your own babies.I am sure this must have added lot of advantages to you in taking care of your own babies when they are born.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
27 Aug 08
When my wife deliver our first born which is my daughter a year ago, The first thing I do is to kissed her when my wife introduced me with her in the Hospital and I'd really love to carry her in my shoulder but she is so small for she has been delivered with my wife for a "premature birth" so I only kissed her and waited for a month for her to carry when she is out from the incubator machine in the Hospital and the waited moment has been answered when the doctor told us to bring her in the house......
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
28 Aug 08
Sometimes it happens in some cases that babies are born premature.I am glad that both your daughter and wife are doing fine.God bless you and your family!
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
23 Aug 08
Newborn babies don't bother me. I love to hold them, even when they are crying. I've often wanted to help a new mother when her child would be crying out of control. I wanted to take the baby and put it across my shoulder. We have a newborn in our family that is only 4 1/2 weeks old. I was thinking about going up and holding him today.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
oh, baby must be so cute.I love to watch them sleeping,hold them and feel their tiny little fingers and toes.It is so amazing!
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
24 Aug 08
new born - handle with care...new born
Oh..I am one among those who are scared...I did scare to hold my own children..till they were few months old.. So, no question of holding other's babies...I am glad to know...that you are not scared to hold them..
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
24 Aug 08
Well, I love to hold babies and I would love to have my own soon.I wish I am married but I guess,I need to wait one year more, then I will have mine
@3cardmonte (5098)
23 Aug 08
i am scared to hold new born babies as they are so delicate and fragile and i am scared of dropping them as i am so very clumsy! I havent done yet though,thankfully
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
No you won't be dropping them.It is just a fear in you that is making you feel that way.I know you are good.
• United States
24 Aug 08
im not i love babys there so precious and prefect i coundnt drop one if i tried. there so prefecxt
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
24 Aug 08
Yes, indeed they are precious angels.They are so perfect,pure and delicate.I love to hear baby's giggle.
• United States
23 Aug 08
i used to be. when i had my first baby i was so scared.they are so fragile looking it is scary. but then when i had my second i wasnt scared at all. so i guess its just something you get used too
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
Yup, I don't have a baby.Infact, I am not yet married.But, when my sister delivered her first baby, she too was so scared to hold and take care of him.I helped her to get over her fears.I am not scared to hold babies, I am used to.I took care of my brother and my youngest sister , so it was not a new thing for me.I enjoy it.
• India
23 Aug 08
I would really like to do so. They are so cute. I don't mind them crying. Only thing being they should not pee on me ;) By the way, nice pic u have uploaded of the baby.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
Oh, thank you.Babies are really cute and sweet.I can keep on looking at baby's face for hours and I won't get bored.I am missing my sister's baby.He is also too cute.
@Rintis (646)
• India
23 Aug 08
A new born baby looks very fragile and not very interesting. Its neck muscles are weak and so needs to be held with care hence many people including first time mothers are scared to hold them. That are afraid that they may end up hurting the baby.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
Babies are delicate and sensitive.By the time they are born they are weak and not strong.I still love to watch them and I find it interesting.The way they try to move their tiny little hands and fingers or lift their leg up, this are worth noticing for me.
@lixiaos77 (1030)
• Shijiazhuang, China
23 Aug 08
It is quite cute but it is soft. Be careful and support its neck when you carry it.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
Yes my friend, you said it right.One important thing we need to take care of is the baby's neck.We should always give support to his/her neck since it is too weak to support on its own.Thank you for reminding me.
@ari8388 (167)
• India
23 Aug 08
i am still scared to hold newly born babies
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Aug 08
Oh, don't be my friend.I know their body is too small,soft and delicate and that can be one of the reason why you are scared to hold a baby.You give it a try and your fear will disappear in a moment.Once you know that the baby likes your company,they can sense it actually,you will be excited and delighted.