trust or mistrust?

i can easily trust people, but if someone will break it, definitely it will never get it back. once you betrayed me maybe i can forgive you, but i cannot give 100% trust anymore..

It depends on the betrayal I guess. If my partner did something small that I had expected her not to do, I would not be so mad. But if by betrayal you mean that she cheated on me, I could never trust her again. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Only as long as I can tolerate. If they commit same mistake again and again I cannot tolerate and I would leave them

i ain't a martyr to be able to do that! there is this one person whom i entrusted to share some of my personal problems, we were good and we were friends. then all of a sudden we had an argument involving another person, and unexpectedly she used all my aces against me. that totally killed my trust and patience on her. the moment she realized her mistakes from a conceited betrayal, she asked forgiveness but i gave her what she deserves. sorry, i made all her efforts to no avail!

i think sure the love will not be the same , and as the others said, it's depend about the betray!! and the love you have for her dude... trust is too important at a relation, all you can do is seeing that betray and how it's infected your love and your relationship.

For me its really hard to trust a person who betrayed you but im pertaining in a relationship but with friends i guess its ok to trust them again because still they are your friends..The difference is your when your love one betrayed you it was really hard to forgive and forget because of all people why he/she will do that to you but with friends probably some issue at hand are not yet solved that's why betrayal take's place, otherwise if you will know the reason why; maybe you will turn into realization about the issue and you'll forgive your friends for doing that to you..

It is really difficult to trust someone who betray you in the past. I understand how you feel. There is a greater tendency that she will do it again. And I don't know, maybe it will take time just before you can lobe and trust the same way again. It could not be given by force, one has to earn that trust again. Just take your time if you need to. we are all human and there are things that really take time to heal.

I can and will trust the person again.. Maybe i'm not hard hearted enough, and i can forgive easily no matter how serious the thing is.. As long as i think that i can take it, i will trust them again ^_^ BUt i know it's to my disadvantage, but it's just my character ^_^