do you try and work it out
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
August 25, 2008 6:28pm CST
we have all had relationships where things start to get bad and we know that they are getting bad and usually i will try and work on it if that person is important to me and i really care about her but if i know that the relationship isn't going anywhere i will usually just let her go, i know that i would fight and fight for this relationship because i honestly do love her and do want to be with her for awhile to come, so i was just wondering about you, when your relationship has hard times do you try and do what you can to work it out? thanks for taking the time out of your day to read and hopefully reply to my discussion, i hope that you all have a great evening and night and the rest of your week is really good as well...thanks!
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4 responses
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
26 Aug 08
I'm married and my husband and i have disaggreement all the time and we fight and fight and we work thinks out we know that if we work things out very thing will be okay... Everyone tells me that the first year of marriage is the worst year and i believe if... i rather work things out than not work them out...
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I think that it is important to a relationship to work things out when times get tough. The most important thing is to keep the lines of communication open. Not talking with your partner can really make things worse and harder to work things out.
Through communication I believe that it helps to discourage a crossing of wires and two people being confused as to what the other one wants.
I have been married for four years. I find that during the hardest times is when you need a shoulder to lean on the most. And in my opinion from experience I always believe in going to your partner first to work on things before going to another party. I am not saying that you would seek another party to get advice but remember that you have to keep your other half's interests at heart.
@longyinghan (145)
• China
26 Aug 08
i think they are right.you should try ,if i were you,i will do my very best to get what i want,no matter whatever wil come.trust you.come on!man .you can.
