when to start and stop loving?
By jhaded10
@jhaded10 (42)
Philippines
August 27, 2008 2:26pm CST
Have you asked yourself question as this? When do I start loving? When do I stop loving and letting someone go? People tend to start loving when they stop loving someone else. When they finally let go of the emotions that they kept over the years that's the time they are ready to face new love life and started to make things work with a new person. Trying to give the best they can to show their love and affection. You can only start loving if you have let go of the past. Why hold on to the past that can never be yours? You should give yourself a break, how can you be happy if you're still in the shadow of your past? There are many reasons to be happy with someone else, don't try to stop yourself from being happy when someone can give that happiness to you. :) start loving again... be happy!!!
2 responses
@eveofsummer (94)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
i've asked myself those questions so many times,but i never found an answer.hence,i stopped asking myself.i don't know when is the right time to start or stop loving someone.i don't even know if there's a right time for that.all i know is that it just happens.
@granite_butterfly (448)
• Canada
27 Aug 08
In my case, it is pretty simple to figure out love begins and even if a relationship goes sour, I am not sure that I ever fully stop loving that person. The love isn't the same, it becomes more like the love of a friend and whether in touch or not both parties would be feeling the pang of loss. To be happy with someone else would mean that you would have to let go the romantic love once shared with someone else. That might be where things get a bit muddled and confusing. There may even be some fear or apprehension that has to be resolved before moving on. In order to move on, sometimes you must leave the past behind.
