are you get married?

@fwangaa (3058)
China
August 28, 2008 5:02am CST
i am 28 year's old,last year i got married,now i haven't have a children. my parent want me to have,but i don't want to have,because my wife very ugly and i am afraid my children as ugly as my wife. what about you myloters?
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13 responses
@howard96h (11658)
• New York, New York
28 Aug 08
I think it is a good idea for you NOT to have any children because if you treat your wife like this I can just imagine how your children will be treated if you think they are ugly too. No one deserves to be treated like this especially a child! Maybe your wife will find another man one day and then she can have beautiful children.
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• United States
28 Aug 08
Have you ever thought about what you wife thinks about you,what kind of person marries them and tells people she is ugly,i feel sorry for you,and lets hope your wife and baby van find some one who will treat like they human.Besides the real is on the inside noth out side.
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@lazeebee (5468)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 08
Hi, I'm not sure if you have the older Chinese mentality, when they don't praise their own family for beauty or brains. Is that why you said your wife is ugly? If not, then I think you are not very kind to say that she's ugly. And that you worry that your children will be ugly, too. I'm curious why you married her, if beauty is so important to you!
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
is that you on the picture as your avatar? what would you feel if i tell you that you are ugly too? if a child is made because of love and passion then the child will come out to be beautiful. i am married also and my family said that my wife is ugly but my child is very handsome. you can see the picture of my child at my profile and my avatar is his picture too. if the reason you have is because your wife is ugly why did you marry her? why not get married to a beautiful one.
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@chiyosan (30203)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
you are so mean! how can you say something like that to your wife?! she is your wife, you married and took her away from her family only to be told that she is ugly?! well i know why you dont have children, it is not by your choice but by God's because he can't give you children cause your the one who is ugly. poor wife of yours.
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@lynnchua (3416)
• Singapore
2 Sep 08
I'm married with two kids, what a thing to say about your wife. You shouldn't have anyway.
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• China
2 Sep 08
I agree with you!! wish you have a sweet hoom!!~~
@SangsTurks (1447)
• India
29 Aug 08
This is so rude! Do you think that you are very handsome?? God has created everyone, and everyone is beautiful in itself. She might not be all that good loking but you cant call her ugly. If that was your thought about her then why did you get married to her in the first place. Even if you are good loking you have a very dark heart that you talk about your wife like that. I am sorry for her. Looks dont remain forever, remember that and you wont have the looks later in life nor a good heart.
@LadyMarissa (12161)
• United States
28 Aug 08
When I first read your comments, I felt sorry for your wife & I wanted to BLAST you. I had to wait a little bit before responding. After reading again I FEEL NOTHING BUT SORROW FOR YOU!!! If your parents realized what an ugly heart you have, they would disown you. After looking at your picture, I can tell you that your wife MUST have a beautiful heart or she would NOT have married you. You will NEVER have a beautiful wife with your UGLY ATTITUDE!!! You should NOT be blessed with a child either. If you have ANY honor, You should honor your parent's wishes. Might I suggest that you put a paper bag over YOUR head so your wife doesn't have to look at such ugliness. Maybe you will get lucky & the baby will take after her NOT you!!!
@rainmark (4306)
28 Aug 08
lolz, why not give it a try to have one, it doesn't mean that if your wife is ugly your kids will be ugly too. Their some cases that both parents are ugly but thier kids are very beautiful, it's because the kids inherit that pretty face from the last generation of your family of ur wife great great ancestor.
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@vidhyavini (6112)
• India
28 Aug 08
This is so mean. Seeing external beauty???? Oh my God!!! External beauty will be there only till we are young. After that even you and everyone of us will be ugly. If this is the reason why you don't want to have child, I pity your wife.
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• China
2 Sep 08
I am a student at school now,i plan to get married two year later. I does not matter how beautiful your wife is, as long as you love her.I is nature for a couple to have a baby. you are so handsome ,your baby must be very lovely and clever. Wish you have a happy and warm family.
@Hatley (164524)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Sep 08
fwangaa how cruel of you, if you think shes so ugly why did you marry her? Was this an arranged marriage? I feel so sorry for your wife, to be called ugly, my God where is yourcompassion? how about you, you dont look all that gorgeous in your avatar, howdare you call her ugly. We all get old and our looks fade but what is in the heart can be very beautiful. you are most unkind fwangaa. most unkind.
@CatsandDogs (13964)
• United States
28 Aug 08
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It means basically that it doesn't matter what a person looks like on the outside but what's in the inside is what matters! You should be ashamed of yourself for saying that about your wife! She did not ask to be born looking the way she does! Shame shame shame on you! Another thing, children don't always come out looking like you or your wife. They may come out better looking but not always. What does it matter anyways? You'll love your children no matter how they look. How would you feel if she felt that you were ugly too? Because you are ugly with the way you think!