What will you do if your friend saying out your secret to others?
By p3y5566
@p3y5566 (171)
Malaysia
August 29, 2008 10:13am CST
Hi, nice to meet you here.
I'm very disappointed of my friend tonight. She said out my secret to my others friends. She made felt very embarrassment. I wont tell any secret to her starting now. How about you all? If your friend saying out your secret to others what will you do? Will you still want to be friend like before you with him/her? Have a nice day and happy my lotting.
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7 responses
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
29 Aug 08
Once bitten twice shy I guess! There is not really much I could do in a situation like this other than to never trust this so called "friend" with anything personal ever again. It would depend on the secret shared too that would determine if we remained friends or not.
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
29 Aug 08
It is always disappointing when someone especially a friend that you might have trusted has went and told something that you shared in secret.
There is no reason for a good friend to do something like that. It is a betrayal of a sort.
One thing to learn is that you might just have to keep some secrets to yourself.
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
29 Aug 08
Well..well..then is she worthy of being your close and best friend?Ask yourself.I had been through this situation where my close friend broke my trust.She spread false rumours about me.Till today I never asked her why she did that to me but I prefer not to be so friendly and share my secrets anymore with her.She broke my faith and trust.I am still a friend to her but she is not my best anymore.She knows this too.
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@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
29 Aug 08
If some one can tell my secrets to others, how can I call him to be a friend. I f some one does that to me I still maintain my friendship with them, but it will be a hypocratic relation as I can never trust him again. Any thing I want to say there will be a doubt nagging in my head about his reliability
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@bunzor (303)
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29 Aug 08
Like I said to someone else who went through something similar to you recently - if someone can't keep your secret then they aren't really a friend! There needs to be trust in a friendship, and if they tell your secrets then you obviously can't trust them!
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@tidgea (355)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Im sorry to hear that. Well, if that happens to me, then I would confront my friend why he did it. I would take into consideration the status of our friendship. He has broken my trust...and if he has done such thing I think he's not a good friend after all.
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@thebeaddoodler (4262)
• Lubbock, Texas
29 Aug 08
Sad to say, a person who can't keep your secrets isn't a very good friend. The damage is done now for this time, but a lesson hard won. Don't tell that particular friend things you don't want known.
A good way to judge how a person will handle your secrets is to be very aware of what she/he tells you about other people. If a person is quick to gossip, you can bet your secrets are never safe with them.
