What would you choose - Love or Career???

Career Choice - Always confuse about career path. Are you also confuse ???
India
August 30, 2008 8:16am CST
Friends, In practicle life, every man/woman come across this type of situation, in which he/She has to choose one from Love or Career. He/She has lover who need his/her feelings, and other way he/she want his/her career opportunities. but his/her lover is not ready for new horizon that will come to him/her. What is your way ??? Are you care about your love ??? Or you ignore the love feelings and go for bright career ??? (I know, answer from girls are totally differ from boys, but its the bluddy practicle world where you wanna make choice. What's your choice)
3 people like this
16 responses
@nic_knick (741)
• China
31 Aug 08
it is not easy for people to choose from love and career. coz some people are more working oriented since they think career is above everything. and if they have successful career. they are likely to have good love. of course. there are some people who would take love as their most important thing in their life. so i am not really sure whether love or carrer is important to people or to me. coz now i have no love and my career totally sucks. good day.
1 person likes this
• India
31 Aug 08
why what happen with you in your past year?
1 person likes this
• China
31 Aug 08
thanx. i am fine. i think. lol
@xParanoiax (6997)
• United States
30 Aug 08
It depends on the surrounding circumstances. Why wouldn't my love want me to go ahead with a career advancement or an upgrade-job? Is it because of insecurities? Is it a silly or selfish reason? Can it be resolved and is the job really important to me? These are all questions I'd have to answer before choosing.
1 person likes this
• India
30 Aug 08
I would like to say, its just because of his strong love towards you.
• India
1 Sep 08
life needs money also if u prefer love than do u feel u were happy with out career??? i personally feel we have to maintain one gap between personal life and professional life of cause love is my first and top priority than career but i go with both bez love can hurt or break u any time that time ur achievement in career will help u to live alone
@joihie (224)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
First off, I'm a girl. With that aside. I would say I would choose the career but I will not lose love in the process. Why? If a person loves me then that person will wish my success and not pull me down because of his feelings. Imagine. You have this greatest opportunity in your life and you will just let it be swept away just because you're held back by your lover. Here's the thing/ A true person that loves you will not let you sink. They will let you be better. When the person understands how important your career is to you, then that person loves you and will not leave you.
1 person likes this
• India
30 Aug 08
Thanks for your comment johihie, I think your comment help them who are confuse with this choice Great reply by great person.
• United States
30 Aug 08
This is a toughie. Truly here is how I would go about it, using an example. My passion is dancing. If I were involved with someone and it started to get serious, and then I got an opportunity to live my dream, but I would have to move away, I would take it. I am just as much a sucker for love as the next guy or gal, but this is my dream. If me and my significant other were serious to the point where he knew that this was my passion, I wouldn't expect him to stop me. He has the option to go with me and maybe even talk things through with me so we can figure some things out. Ultimately, if you are with the person you were meant to be with, they should not hold you back from your dreams. They should embrace them just as you should their dreams. The point of being in a relationship is to want to meet someone who makes you want to be a better person. It's kind of hard to do what you love when someone else who is supposed to love you, tells you not to. I am a hopeless romantic, but reality is what it is. You have to do what makes you happy. Because if you're not happy, it's going to be really hard for you to want to make someone else happy. Do what you love, and when you meet someone who you're meant to be with, it will happen naturally, and while every relationship has it's compromises, your happiness should not be one of them.
@chiyosan (30199)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
if this was asked to me a few years back, i would have always chosen career. but having been there, i now choose love because without love, you won't have anyone to share your love with then it is meaningless at all.
• India
31 Aug 08
hmmm. You are right, Thanks for comment
• India
17 Dec 08
I would go for my LOVE anytime. PERIOD.
@shana123 (2096)
• India
31 Aug 08
It depends on the situation hiteshurp... For me i havent been in such a state with my guy and i really dont even want to imagine about that situation for me both are important i just cant plainly say everything if the girl is really loving her guy then she should really think of her family if everything is ok i mean if its like her family is not depended on her there is no wrong in choosing love as her choice but if a girl who's family members badly need her financial support then she has to speak to her guy about this situation asking her guy to support her family for sometime depending on the guy's answer then the choice can be made here... i answered you from a girl's point of view.. but hiteshurp i just want to know your reply as you havent mentioned in the main discussion
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
I would definitely choose career because i believe if your love one really loves you she would understand the nature of your work. She would understand the pro's and con's of your job. She would understand you no matter what. Opportunity knocks only once so better grab it and soar high.
@neothegod (208)
• India
31 Aug 08
i think this is the major and most difficult decision to make because, both aspects r very important part of life. if there comes a situation when u have to leave ur career for the love of ur life, it will be very difficult for him to be successfull in life. now if the person leaves love for his career, then he will never be happy unless he finds love elsewhere. as u know true love is hard to come by. so it is very important to judge oneself before making this difficult decision...as this decision alone can change someone's life foreover
@strossuss (125)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
I go for career, because careers are not always there, its an opportunity. after my career then I'll choose love.
@ml4box (336)
• China
31 Aug 08
Love is compromise. Two person both have to do some change for the other.
• United States
31 Aug 08
I would choose love over a career because as long as I have that person beside me, then nothing else matters.
• India
31 Aug 08
i know u ii b surprised a li'l bit but its true that i ll choose my love BECAUSE FOR THE PERSON I LOVE I CAN DO NYTHING N THAT MEANS ANYTHING... WHO THE HELL CARES 4 CAREER WHEN HAVING A TRUE LOVE..
@tlb0822 (1412)
• United States
31 Aug 08
I would defiantly choose love over a career. Though I would hope that my love would want to go with me and persue my career. If there weren't any options though I would defiantly choose my love over any career.
@zeny_zion (1284)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
well if i have a good career maybe ill choose my career, now if also i have a good love then ill do both. we can do it at the same time. its a matter of proper schedule.
• China
31 Aug 08
Hello hiteshrup .well for me .it’s a graduated from an college and began my first job. At the same time .I met a girl .and she was just finish school .but my work is not jarless .I still move from one place to another place .so we have little time to keep our love. At last .I made a decision and changed my second job .now I works in a littoral city and my girlfriend will come to with me next month.and we will stay this city together . There is no question about that I choose this job something must be sacrificial.Yes. If I still stay my first job my wage is higher than my second .but I am not regret it .after all earning will improve day by day and also a important reason is my girlfriend will stay together with me . Tomorrow everything is nice !