Whining friend what to do?

Philippines
September 2, 2008 12:04pm CST
What would you do if your friend was a little too clingy to her bf and whines about her new relationship with him over and over again? I mean I love my friends but when it comes to matters with their bf's I mean they just won't stop... They keep on expecting something from the guy and the guy expects something from my friend as well but neither of them are willing to change their single habits for the other and the worst part of it is.. It's me they go to, to whine about it... what do you do in a situation like this?
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@bunzor (303)
2 Sep 08
You just be there for your friend and give them the best advice you can give. That is what being a friend is.
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Thanks... I know that but sometimes... even though you'd like to help I feel like sometimes they have to learn on their own or maybe i'm just too stressed these days to handl their need for advise.. hehe
@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
2 Sep 08
I can see where this could prove somewhat frustrating. Maybe people seek you out because they figure you are a good shoulder to cry on. You might be a good friend and listener. People will come to you if they know you will listen. Hopefully if you have some problems one day you can have someone to go to. I like to get advice from people sometimes but I usually try to work things out on my own if possible. Good luck.
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
I guess your right it just gets too frustrating sometimes especially when you've already told them your opinion on the subject but they still won't drop the subject ehe...