When your Mom and Dad fights....

This used to really bother me when I was a child and then it unfortunately got to the point where it was such a normal thing to witness I just became numb to it. I think I am one of the few teenagers that was actually happy when my parents seperated because it finally meant some peace and quiet! lol. All I can suggest is that you remove yourself from the situation every time rather than sit and watch. I used to make comments to them both when leaving the room such as "Here we go again!" and "Would you two give it a rest for once!" which sometimes caused them to stop and calm down but most of the time it didn't. Walk away. There is no point distressing yourself with a situation you cannot control. All the best.

I really haven't seen my parents fighting like cats and dogs but whenever they fight or have some issues, I interfere because I don't want that issue to stretch like a chewing gum and later become worst.I try to make them understand,tell them how it is affecting we,kids and tell them to solve their problem by discussing instead of shouting at each other.I love my parents and I cannot see them fighting, so I try to patch up things between them instead of running away.

I got married last 20 years. I rarely go to my moms place,when i go there the situation is cool and calm. Now they are also old but still they fight for some silly matters and mom complaint about that. As the children grew older the fight between the parents comes down. In my childhood i too used to watch their fight silently, if we poke our nose we get good kick so never go between the fight. Happy mylotting and have a nice day.

Oh My God! i just cant bear when my mom and my dad fight...sometimes i'll try to convince them,but in vain...they will scold me too in between!i mean when the fight is going on,even if i do a silly,simple mistake my mom will scold me for one hour....when their fight is too worse,it distracts me and i sometimes loose my concentration on my studies..In my house,normally the fight will take place when i am getting ready to go to school(now college!),it makes the whole day worst!! i can talk about this for even a day long! Fortunately,there are no fights recently!! and hope it will never happen again! i hate it very very much!.....

there is nothing much you can do, parents fight all the time, what you should be concerned about is the degree of the fight, e.g is it just name calling or too much shouting or does it go to the extent of hitting each other? if its just an argument then you should not worrying yourself so much, two people will always argue as long as they live together, it is not really bad as you might think, but i also think that they (the parents) should not air their differences in front of their children for psychological reasons, if you are a child and in this kind of situation i think its best for you to go outside when they start their fights, or just tell them to stop it, you would be suprised how many parents dont want to be corrected by their own children or talk to one of them and tell them it bothers you watching them fight

i can say for sure that such thing never in my house with and without my presence. my father and mother's was love marriage and i can say that fighting never never happens in my house and so i totally dont know how to respond to this discussion since i dont have any experience

It's really unbearable. I don't like to see them fight as well especially if they're fighting about me. Before, I hate it when my parents fight in front of me. What I do is interfere and help them solve the problem. I really interrupt.

I do the same thing with you.And at that time ,I really hope I'm not there.

I remember way back then, when my mom and dad were still together, they fight as hell! days pass by that their always fighting, shouting at each other. it hurts me a lot seeing my parents fighting. and I've been hurt for my siblings. I just sometimes cry, and release my problems with the help of my friends. it was so hard to see them that way. you can't do nothing but to watch. and they can't help but stay that way.

I am having two kids 15 years and 11 years..So, if I take it for myself...or ourselves...Thanks God ...we are together for 19 years..and we never fight. Yes, we have difference of opinion..and we sort it out..calmly..We try not to have any such discussion in front of kids...

Usually They will fight for anything, without any reason. They start fighting cursing and they do everthing a real fight requires. I never put my head in that fight, because at the end of the day they will be toghether they are happy with thier Marraige life. Thats more than enough for me. They look after each other very well so I dont interfear in thier fight.

Hi, poor girl when I was a child,My Mum and Dad liked to fight sometimes.But I real did not know what to do,I just went away and about several days later I back.

Hi friend, what ever you are doing is good. Never go in between mom and dad. If there is no fight in marriage life there is no intensity of love even. Though they fight everyday and though fight is part of their daily life, they also have the same intensity of love towards each other. Even my parents fight many times. Sometimes, I get irritated watching them, but the love between them is also many times more then these petty fights. When the real time comes they are one, their word is one. Hence, just ignore all this and enjoy every moment. bye now.

I will just enjoy it.My dad won't be serious at all,but mom will be complaining all the time.I'm used with it,to hear the same old story everyday from them.