Do you hate goodbyes?
September 5, 2008 2:01am CST
People come and go. People close to us sometimes leave us and it's very hurting. I hate goodbyes, but what can I do? Sometimes, people need to go.
6 Sep 08
Most times I hate to say goodbye ,bacause we get very well with each others. We can share both happiness and sadness, we can depend with each other ,and the experience is never happen in others. So I hate to say goodbye . I still remember that when I graduated from my college I cried cause I have to seperate from my best friends . But sometime I like to say goodbye ,tahe situation is I am not getting well with both people and work . So I want to find another good place to know new person and take new job . And I can say goodbye to my old style life . I can start a new life again . like it saied in "Gone with the wind" ,tommorrow is another day .
5 Sep 08
Yes, it's always painful to say goodbye because of the emotional attachment that you have "invested" in the person. But I agree that sometimes, people have to go whether we like it or not. It is a sad fact of life that we have to learn how to cope up with. I said goodbye to one of the persons I value most, and I didn't want to, but I have to. I will have to accept the inevitable that the only permanent thing in this world is change. Even change is not permanent. We have to move on and recoup whatever is left after the goodbye. All the best
5 Sep 08
Well there is no permanent thing in this world and if saying goodbyes do happen we have no recourse but to accept. I just had a very good friend who had to migrate to Canada and that really gave some sadness but at least we can communicate by e-mails. The worst goodbye is when a loved one passed away from this world. It's hard and painful because you will cease to see him in this world again.
5 Sep 08
I don't generally hate goodbye's. I do feel sad when a person very close to me has to say goodbye. But I would hope for the best for that person. I don't have many friends. Most of my friends are far away from me, so most of the time, it's good bye for us whenever we meet. Goodbyes don't necessarily mean we're never seeing one another again, though. What I hate is being close to a person, getting into a misunderstanding or rift with him or her, and not getting to say goodbye at all. That's what hurts me most. It's better to say goodbye and still be friends, than separate with grudges or heartaches against each other and not saying goodbye at all.
17 Sep 08
people come, people go, i will always be here (my favorite quote). yeah people are sometimes funny. when someone strange comes, they get annoyed and disturbed. then, after they are used to the person, they don't want he leaving when it is about time to him to leave. yes, maybe it's hurting if someone we love or just are used to are leaving. i experiences this several times. but i learn that time is healing.