Do you hate goodbyes?

@djoyce71 (2512)
Philippines
September 5, 2008 2:01am CST
People come and go. People close to us sometimes leave us and it's very hurting. I hate goodbyes, but what can I do? Sometimes, people need to go.
14 responses
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
Oh, I hate to say it.. especially for my love ones. But I did'nt show, I am not used to show my emotion.. I just cro=y on my own.
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@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
Most men are like that. You hide your emotions, but deep inside you're hurting and crying in pain. A goodbye is really a sad word. Have a nice day rodel.
@lily3753 (390)
• China
6 Sep 08
Most times I hate to say goodbye ,bacause we get very well with each others. We can share both happiness and sadness, we can depend with each other ,and the experience is never happen in others. So I hate to say goodbye . I still remember that when I graduated from my college I cried cause I have to seperate from my best friends . But sometime I like to say goodbye ,tahe situation is I am not getting well with both people and work . So I want to find another good place to know new person and take new job . And I can say goodbye to my old style life . I can start a new life again . like it saied in "Gone with the wind" ,tommorrow is another day .
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@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
There's always tomorrow to keep us going. Have a nice day lily
@tootsier (47)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
i guess it's one of those facts of life that we somehow can get over in due time. and from what i experienced, the most painful goodbyes are the ones that are "unexplained". :(
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@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
We can accept and get over, but still painful when we remember.
@APPCHEM (113)
• Pakistan
5 Sep 08
one of the worst part of life is saying goodbye to someone you love so much & there are times you'll never know when you'll meet that person again in future.
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@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
So sad, you keep thinking and questioning, will he/ she come back?
@Jenaisle (3803)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Yes, it's always painful to say goodbye because of the emotional attachment that you have "invested" in the person. But I agree that sometimes, people have to go whether we like it or not. It is a sad fact of life that we have to learn how to cope up with. I said goodbye to one of the persons I value most, and I didn't want to, but I have to. I will have to accept the inevitable that the only permanent thing in this world is change. Even change is not permanent. We have to move on and recoup whatever is left after the goodbye. All the best
@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
Goodbye is the saddest word.
@salonga (28016)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Well there is no permanent thing in this world and if saying goodbyes do happen we have no recourse but to accept. I just had a very good friend who had to migrate to Canada and that really gave some sadness but at least we can communicate by e-mails. The worst goodbye is when a loved one passed away from this world. It's hard and painful because you will cease to see him in this world again.
@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
That's the saddest part..... a loved one leaving you and will never come back specially when there are words left unsaid and things left undone, so hurting and I hate the feeling....
@paulsy (1264)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
I don't generally hate goodbye's. I do feel sad when a person very close to me has to say goodbye. But I would hope for the best for that person. I don't have many friends. Most of my friends are far away from me, so most of the time, it's good bye for us whenever we meet. Goodbyes don't necessarily mean we're never seeing one another again, though. What I hate is being close to a person, getting into a misunderstanding or rift with him or her, and not getting to say goodbye at all. That's what hurts me most. It's better to say goodbye and still be friends, than separate with grudges or heartaches against each other and not saying goodbye at all.
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@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
That's true paulsy, we need to settle things first before saying goodbyes, because it will be very hard keeping grudges to anybody specially your friend or loved ones. Have a nice day!
@dong1970 (1573)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
It's hard to say goodbye to somebody whom you love.I hate goodbyes....It's part of our life that somebody will say good bye to you.
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@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
Very hard that it gets me teary....
@shepora (22)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Goodbyes are very sad. It hurts so much to say goodbye to a loved one. But for me it's better to be able to say your goodbyes than not being able to do so or getting the chance to do it.
@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
Yes, that is so true shepora. It's better to say goodbye with hugs.
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
18 Sep 08
I agree with you. We can never prevent our love ones from leaving. You may try to keep in mind that your paths will cross again someday to make your hurt bearable
• Indonesia
17 Sep 08
people come, people go, i will always be here (my favorite quote). yeah people are sometimes funny. when someone strange comes, they get annoyed and disturbed. then, after they are used to the person, they don't want he leaving when it is about time to him to leave. yes, maybe it's hurting if someone we love or just are used to are leaving. i experiences this several times. but i learn that time is healing.
@rkrish (3003)
• India
17 Sep 08
Its what called as change is permanent and i too believe in change where my life goes all about. but a different my next cheeks are difference time to time but my hearts gets filled with more friends but nothing has been taken out still.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
17 Sep 08
Yes thats true.It hurts to say goodbye but sometimes we have to understand that people should leave for good intentions.I hate when i left my country but i have to move on and be with the man i really love.
@meesum (65)
• India
5 Sep 08
ya ur right...