did personality affect?

the first thing is his personality..and if he got the look then thats only a bonus..when you love a person, physical appearance is not that important but the personality counts..

The first thing anyone see's in their partner is only their physical appearance, many people deny this, they might say that it is his kindness, his internal personality, his clean heart etc and many more things, but it is the physical personality which attracts many people at first. People might not agree this, but, if at all our partner has different looks we would never ever have got attracted towards him. it is only when the beauty of the other person is reciprocated by the mind and your heart that you go forward to give a smile and greet the other person. And this is absolutely true in case of a partner.

What I see that attracted me most to her is her strong personality,well partly her physical appearance but most of all her sexiness.Well for me physical appearance is not that important what matter most is I love her very much even from the start and I love her more each day that I wanna spend my whole life with her. I think beauty fades but the inside of the person that glows even in the dark. Have a nice day!

No way, i never look at someones appearance when I'm falling for them etc. I wouldn't BE falling for them if it wasn't for there personality. My current boyfriend... thank the lord hes beautiful! At least i know he is. My friend doesnt think so much but then she goes on complete looks of someone, and she likes 'emo' sort-of men.. where the hair covers the face... so how does she know if they're hot or not anyway. (Not stereotyping emotional's, just saying she goes for the men with the hair over their face ;]) But i know alot of people think hes a fittie, so... For most people looks is some of the factor... but for me its not. I'd love my boyfriend even if he was the ugliest guy in the world. But then define beautiful? Who has a right to say slim is beautiful and fat is ugly? Or a big nose is a bad thing... big eyes is a good thing...? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... not the media.

Appearance is not my priority, I always look for personality because with time those appearances may fade with different changes one goes through, throughout the years as one ages. Personality will always be there no matter how many wrinkles one may have.