5 feet tall?
September 5, 2008 10:35am CST
What will you do if a small guy courting you? Are you shame to yourself, friends and family? How will you entertain him? Thou his not dwarf but small. The guy is educated, have fine job, dont drink, dont smoke, quite adventurous and he is average person when it comes to religion. Heres my priority question, what is your first expression the first time you met the guy?
• United States
5 Sep 08
Why should you be ashamed, you picked him, and agree to the courtship. When first meeting this person, I probably would not have an impression, it would be no different than when I meet someone else for the first time. Are you saying, would you be shocked because he is so short? I do not judge people, I would not think or act any different with him than anyone else. Example, my husband brought a friend of his over the other day, and the man was blind. I thought no different of him or treated him any different because of his handicap. If I got to know this short person better and we had feelings for each other, then we would handle our relationship like anyone else.
5 Sep 08
Thanks for your comments I appreciate it too much. But you know other people did shocked sometimes. They even tell you some negative opinions and putting the guy down when they see you dating each other. Asking questions like. Are you okey with him? What will be your children look like someday? Hahaha, I hope your children dont follow the same height as your husband to be. They even laughing at you and became the first topic when meeting some friends. You know their are some people dont think and realize that it might be hurt at the side of the guy especially at his present. Even you dont have any intention to be unpleasant in his part. Its hard for a guy to set a side his emotion or in a situation that makes him not comfortable, except its his friend too. In that way he can laugh and just pretend as a jokes. But then no matter what happen as long as your wellingly to sacriface everything just to get the girl you love. And you like its other definitely no one can stop you.
• United States
6 Sep 08
I wouldn't be ashamed. If he treats me well, and cares about me, his height doesn't matter. The person you described has so many strong qualities. I couldn't be ashamed of someone like that. In the end, what matters most is that the two people are happy together, regardless of what everyone else thinks.