I just dont get my hair

Hey saundly, I have naturally curly, frizzy hair! I hate it! It does what it wants and it's never doing what I want it to do. If I let it dry by itself it's crazy wild. I let my layers grow in and now I have to wear it up or back in a clip because it's all over the place. I need to get it cut in layers but I hate to cut it because unless it's cut right it's really hard to deal with. I like to be able to wash and blow and an go without too much fussing which means I need to find a hairdresser who knows how to work with curly hair and the shrivel factor! This is no easy task. They have to know that when they cut it wet that it will dry completely different and look much shorter. It will have to be cut just right into the curl which is so difficult and I am really freaky about getting my hair cut for these reasons. God help the person doing the cutting!

Do you find that it relates to the amount of humidity? Mine is that way as well. It also depends on whether I use conditioner or not, and whether or not I comb it while it is wet or not. It seems to be wavier if I let it dry beforeI comb it.

LOL I don't have that "problem" but I wish it did!! Think of how much money you are saving on hair dressers, and stylists. Mind you i like my flat hair just the way it is, but if it wanted to self-style I wouldn't complain, because it would be a new surprise that woudln't cost me anything, and wouldn't involve chemicals. Your hair sounds so cool!! I wish i had hair like yours.