have you ever cheated your friend?

Philippines
September 9, 2008 8:22am CST
I haven't yet.and I don't wanna try it.Friends who do that really sucks.They don't know the essence of friendship and how vital it is in our lives. Teenagers like me tend to share secrets and share my hidden emotions with trusted friends rather than sharing it to my parents. I know.all teens are like that.It's a fact! No one can change that.So please,don't ever try to cheat your friends,if you don't want to be cheated. hmmpp..Who wants to be cheated on anyway!
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27 responses
• Mexico
9 Sep 08
ofcourse not..i love my frnds...those who are real friend..so no question of cheating...
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• Philippines
12 Sep 08
thanks for the response.Yes,real friends are worth to be loved not to be cheated on.
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
If I call someone friend I wouldn't cheat him/her so my answer is no. I wouldn't want to do to someone what I don't want done to me so how much more if it is a friend. You are right about the essence of friendship and I believe that when you really consider someone your friend, that you wouldn't cheat on him/her.
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
You right!I believe in karma.So i prefer not to do things unto others what I don't want them to do with me.
@rainmark (4306)
9 Sep 08
Eversince im so very nice to my friends, i never cheated them in different ways. But my friends some of them are nice some of them are snake, one of them cheated on me, shagged my ex, who will be happy with that? She never value our friendship.Hope i can't find another friends which like her.happy myloting!
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• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Sometimes being so nice to our friends may give us some disadvantages and we end up regretting for what we have done.I had experienced that when I'm in high school,it hurts so bad thinking that you were doing good to her then what she'll do to you in return is completely opposite from what you expected.Oh she is so bad.Since then,are you both still friends?
@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
9 Sep 08
not me, i have had enough of cheating in my lifetime to do me. u sure don't accomplish anything by doing that.
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
that's true.Why cheat?for in fact that's a sin and you can't get anything from doing that.
@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
12 Sep 08
u don't gain anything by cheating & lying. you are gonna' get caught up with sooner or later. have a good weekend.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
because there's no smoke that we can't hold. We can't hide anything,right?
@Sreekala (23605)
• India
10 Sep 08
Never, I can't even think of it. I can't cheat anybody then how can my friends. The people who can cheat their friends will cheat others also.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Yes,that's a chain that goes on and on.
@Sreekala (23605)
• India
15 Oct 08
Good, keep it up. But I did not understand why you comment to me instead you can respond to the dicussion. Anyway no problem, nice to read your comment. Thanks and good luck to you.
@Sreekala (23605)
• India
16 Oct 08
Doesn't matter, we all were new in this site sometime. I am happy to know that you are learning it from your mistakes. You can ask any help and it will be my pleasure to help you. Thanks and good luck.
@austere (2816)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
nope.. i cant remeber an instance that i intentionally cheated a friend. well, wheni say i am your friend i really stick to the word and to the definition of the word. maybe i have hurt a friend..but never was it intentionally, maybe i was just not who she or he expected me to be or something.. but nothing to the extent of really hurting and cheating. or i would not claim myself a friend of that person!
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Yes,we're not perfect and we can't avoid ourselves from hurting others.Your right,being a friend is not an easy task,we must stick to what friendship really means.And it means
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
loving each other and accepting each others differences.
@austere (2816)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
you're absolutely right.. but there are a few people who doesnt seem to value their friends!
@animeniak (425)
• United States
10 Sep 08
i don't remember cheating on my friends... i just don't like to ruin our friendship by cheating on my friends... but if betraying counts as cheating, then yes i have been cheated by many of my friends... (i guess) -_-;;
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Why have you betrayed some of them?What are your intentions in doing that?Did you do it intentionally?
• United States
13 Sep 08
LOL no i meant i have been betrayed by some of my friends.. i didn't betray them. And no, I do not know why I have been betrayed.
• China
13 Sep 08
aha,i really dont want to cheate my friend,as you said,friends are important,nobody want to be cheated. but i do cheated my friends sometimes,i think an inessential big talk is ok.it didnt hurt our friendship at all. i saw your picture i think you are an asian.i am from china,if you want to be my friend and share somethin you want to,please add me,ok?
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
sUre.We I will invite you as soon as possible.I'm indeed a friendly person and I want to have lots of friends from all over the world.heheehhe.
@AamidMS (73)
• India
10 Sep 08
Earlier, may be in my childhood I have cheated, but not some big cheating, mostly related to some small things only. I will never cheat them, but yes others have cheated me so many times, also in terms of big things too. Well this is life, truly good persons experience more pain.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Yeah,we are of the same experience.I also realized that since then.I was really good and I'm bound to suffer more pain.
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
good job.. you have the hottest discussion.. i think this is the start.. hehe.. i had cheated one of my best friend.. to discuss it, well i am much ashame.. i just dont want to talk about it.. it was past already... and i am afraid that he would cheat me too. i am praying not.. i asked forgiveness already. and he did.. we had our relationship back... congrats.. dont forget to reply to the persons who responded your discussion.. thanks..
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Heheheheh..Thank you kuya jing! hmmppp..Ok ra na sya,we human are not perfect and we can't always do good,dba?hehhehe..char!gOdbless
• Australia
10 Sep 08
Never cheat anyone whether they're friends or enemies. I'm a strong believer in kalma.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Me too..
@cybersoft01 (1287)
• India
10 Sep 08
I have had so many friends and am still having a few, but I have never ever cheated any of them. I don't even like to cheat any human being let alone my friends. I just can't afford to think that someone thinks I have cheated on him / her.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
You're a real friend.Keep it up!
@lucky38 (72)
• Malaysia
10 Sep 08
Actually when I was small about 6-10 years old I used to cheat my parent. Now, sometime I cheat my friend for their own good.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Ahh..That's okey but don't do it in hurting your friends.
@Eileen01 (227)
• China
10 Sep 08
I never and ever cheat my best friends.It's a abominable action,isn't it? But i was cheated by my best friends.I trusted her and we have same like in many areas.She joined in a criminous organization. And then she cheated me and let me join also.Luckily,I escaped there.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Yeah!Very abominable!Oh,it's sad knowing that you're being cheated by your friends.Anyway,you're not alone.I was being cheated too.
• Canada
10 Sep 08
i dont know if i actually cheated but i think i, unintentionally, did. i once had a close friend who just broke up with this guy and i was sort of her backer. she told me everyting and i knew she still loved him because it just happened. and due to circumstances i cant control, lets just say i got closer to the guy and we eventually had things goin on. i was so afraid to open it up to my girl friend so i decided to just keep it. but life as fair as it is, that friend of mine knew after some time. still, i didnt speak to her haha. but mysteriously were both okay up to know and we never got into a fight. lucky me haha :)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
you're really lucky.hehehehe.your experience is some kind of a thrill and you know it's hard because you're int he middle.Thanks for sharing!Godbless
@isshie (71)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
I have not... Coz the way I see it is that its simple. If you're the kind of person who does that to your friends then you are not being a FRIEND to that person/persons. With cheating involves lying... So, how can you be a friend yourself if you do those things.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Your right isshie..tHanks for the response!Godbless.
@diacedez (177)
• United States
10 Sep 08
ive never cheater.. stole or anything from any of my friends.. although i know friends who do it to others.. its a shame.. those arent real friends.. ive had opportunities to steal alot of money.. n other things in my life from friends that would go un-noticed.. but i hate thieves n liars.. thats not me.. its hard to find good friends in today's world cuz everyone is out for themselves.. i tend to treat people how i would wanna be treated..
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
It really is a big shame,not just to anybody who knows you but also to our Almighty God.Yes,it's really hard finding a real and trustworthy friend nowadays.I don't know why it's like that now. I guess because of the rapid growth of technology and hence,it destructs our values.
@magna86 (1787)
• India
10 Sep 08
well no i dont think that is possible!!! atleast for me!! and i agree with you .. each and every word!! all i want to be in life is to be honest!!to people who trust me!! i really feel that cheating someone who is close to you ( a friend) would be the worst thing that you would do in your life!
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Indeed!Thanks for the response.
• Malaysia
9 Sep 08
I also haven't cheat my friend. I agree with you that nobody want to be cheated. Cheating hurt's the friendship. People won't trust someone again if they like to cheat.
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
tHAnks for the response.We must keep our friends and love them because they are the ones who will never leave us.
9 Sep 08
No but I've been accused. I wouldn't cheat a friend or lie to them. If you feel the need to be like that then why be friends. People who claim to be your friends eventually show their true colors. Good luck to you!
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
hello,yes you right.Why befriending somebody whom you don't like and end up cheating with him or her. Or backbiting him or her.