hai guyz which is better???
September 9, 2008 12:30pm CST
could u please tell me which is the better life i mean most joyful period - is it life with a lover or life with our life partner ie with husband/wife.. i think life with lover is the best coz i didnt led a life with a wife .. i am waiting please do reply
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9 Sep 08
for me a life with a partner is best. everything is shared whe you live a life with one. you share your grief, your share the troubles, you share the anxiety, thus all these are divided and therefore lighter to bear....you also share joys, dreams, success, thus making it all sweeter and more meaningful.... i had a great time living my life when i was single...having experienced all the pleasures, indepdence and excitement of singlehood, lead me to a happy married life. so if ur not married yet, enjoy being single. if you decided to commit yourself to a lifetime partner, then im sure you will find jou in it. goodluck and happy mylotting!
10 Sep 08
Generally it is life with your husband/wife since that's why they call it wedded bliss but it really depends on the circumstances. It could happen that a husband and wife did not marry for love but for some other reason so there are no deep feelings or emotions from which joy or happiness could arise. It could also happen that two people who are not married could be very happy and joyful together because of the true love they feel for one another. So it depends on the situation. Many would say however that being married with a family would be a joyful peruiod especially if the spouses are both friends and lovers.
10 Sep 08
Actually when i had a boyfriend its exciting because you still have the feel and at the same time there is a lot of surprises on the relationship... when i got married... its actually nice and happy because for me you know what exactly the person is your challenges on your life and the happiness that you are together forever
9 Sep 08
To me I think it's better with your lover. I mean untill you both become parterns. LOL! It also depends on your mentality. What you feel about your partner. Becoming a partner increases your responsibility. Being a lover has less responsibility. Marrage, realationships these are huge thing. To me, love is a divine thing so you should not compare it with any thing, with anyone.