Does you care if your hubby or boyfriend has a lot of female friends?

United States
September 10, 2008 5:41am CST
My hubby is outgoing and he is very popular at the mill he works at. I should know because I worked with him for a couple of years there. I know most women have to find him attractive. He is a very hard worker, great personality, and pretty all at the same time. I have a slight jealous bone and I can not stand single women or women who were known to be "loose" talking to him about stuff other than work, but I usually just grin and bare it. I know that most male friends or associates I talked to said something out of the way ...rather they were married or not. Do you like your man having female friends? What is your take on it?
4 responses
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
10 Sep 08
well as far as i know who her friends are it doesnt matter! and then again whats the point of having bunches of friends, they must be few isnt it?
• United States
10 Sep 08
No, it doesn't bother me. My BF has a few femal friends that he's know since high school, plus he works with several women, but it doesn't bother me a bit. I trust that he is not going to mess around on me, and he's never given any indication of being unhappy in our relationship. Now, if he suddenly started spending lots of time alone with one of his female friends, I might feel differently, but under normal circumstances, I'm fine with it.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
10 Sep 08
As long as I know about the women and they know about me and not to mess with my shyt AND as long as my man shows me respect and DOESNT give me reason to worry then no I wouldnt have any problem with it..I really have no right to in all honesty since I have numerous male friends that I'm very close to etc...and I get along great with men I dont know when I'm out and about as well
@kezabelle (2974)
10 Sep 08
No it doesnt bother me, I trust him any problems I might have would be with the other women who have no shame in throwing themselves at another womans man. I know though he wouldnt do that to us so I dont worry.