how do you like your men/women? whats your pleasure?

@dloveli (4369)
United States
September 13, 2008 7:53am CST
Okay spill it. Tell me what kind of man/woman do you prefer. Maybe both who knows. I am nosy so tell me. For me I like my men kind of bulky. Not too bulky. Thick something I can hold. I dont care what their race is as long as they are responsible and mature they're for me. lol. Actually as long as they're breathing or have a pulse.lol just kidding. I dont care about age. I take that back. I dont mind if they were younger. Just Not real young. I am in my thirties so I dont think I want to date a twenty year old. As far as age is concerned I think thats and individual thing. I would have to see what their personality is like before I take on that decision. I would like them to have an income. In fact that's a must!!!! I like a man with nice feet. I dont want to have him put play footsie with me and I end up with lacerations. lol If I had to pick an ethnicity as a preference. I would go for the latin persuasion. It doesnt really matter one way or another. Looks are not that important. It doesnt hurt for him to be a honey. That way I have somthing to look at. As far as everything else goes, I take it step by step. Now it's your turn people. Share!!!!! Tell me, what's your idea of a hottie?
11 responses
@rgapeli (20)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
well i like girls who smile, i dont know but iguess its my weakness, whenever i saw a girl smile,. specially for me,. wow,. my heart melt quick,. and i just feel relax or feel complete,. and i just smile for my self,.(^^,).
23 Sep 08
Well my preference is tall,slim and sexy.He must be honest,smart and charming.He should also be reliable and should able to make me laugh.He should also be able to dress.
@Jezebella (1447)
• United States
2 Oct 08
I like my boyfriend to have a sense of humor. He must be able to make me laugh when I am feeling down. He has to be older than me, I don't think I could date someone younger than I am. Like you said he needs an income if a guy can't support himself I ain't dating him cause I'm not paying for his stuff know what I mean. I want him to be a gentleman and loving.
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
16 Sep 08
[i]HI dloveli, I always love someone who is older than I am even when I was in College, a stable guy, very responsible in everything, reliable, sincere, trustworthy and who will also respect and love my Family! I will say, I got what I want..My hubby is older than me, neat and he has all the characteristics I describe above![/i]
@kwenge (2492)
• Kenya
16 Sep 08
Gosh! thanks
@kwenge (2492)
• Kenya
16 Sep 08
My hubby is my dream hottie and below are all his characteristics: 1) Taller than me - he is 6" and am 5'4 2) Dark and lovely (brown skinned men...not me) 3) Built ( i mean fully developed muscles, no bornes near the meat) his waist is 38cm so u know what i mean. 4) Brown eyes - when he looks into my eyes my knees get weak 5) Nice feet and soft ones heheheheee........so my bed sheets are safe 6) Age - a year older than me.........if it were not him then atmost 3 years older 7) Educated - yes I mean he should not be a school dropout.....atleast more educated than me though its an option 8) with a salary - no man can survive on love alone, we need daily bread and I should not be the breadwinner. 9) Good upbring and a clean family background 10) Mature - yes, though he is a year older, he reasons and thinks faster than his 33 year old brother. HE SHOULD BE A GOD FEARING MAN of which he is and I thank God. And the list continues
@aquarina (172)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I dont have a lot of criteria. all i know is that if a guy is too short, he has little chance of being anything more than friends with me. lol. i feel like i b**** saying that. i mean, it's not impossible... but he would have to work really hard. i am very turned on by men who are very tall... well, above 6 feet. My fiance now is 6'3" and it's absolutely perfect! I'm 5'6" and when i wear my really high heels he is still taller than me. I LOVE THAT. I also like guys who are on the thinner side... but not SKIINNNY. And they must have nice skin and nice teeth. I think i have already found my perfect man! yay!:-)
@aquarina (172)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I dont have a lot of criteria. all i know is that if a guy is too short, he has little chance of being anything more than friends with me. lol. i feel like i b**** saying that. i mean, it's not impossible... but he would have to work really hard. i am very turned on by men who are very tall... well, above 6 feet. My fiance now is 6'3" and it's absolutely perfect! I'm 5'6" and when i wear my really high heels he is still taller than me. I LOVE THAT. I also like guys who are on the thinner side... but not SKIINNNY. And they must have nice skin and nice teeth. I think i have already found my perfect man! yay!:-)
• Singapore
15 Sep 08
I like girls who are cute...and kind...thats it!
@winterose (39932)
• Canada
14 Sep 08
I like an honest man, he is kind and gentle to his woman but strong when he needs to be at work. I like someone who is friendly and loves animals. He has to be intelligent and can carry on a conversation but doesn't talk just to hear himself talk.
@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
13 Sep 08
He has to be kind and loving . and a mans man also onethat men sort of look up too for what he does and what he has done . If ya know what I mean I hope so . And be only mine. Not play around. Have a sence of humor
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
13 Sep 08
My preference would be someone near my age. I don't want someone too much younger. I like the fact that at my age what you see is what you get and there's not alot of surprises. I am short so height has never been an issue.....I don't care if they have hair or not as long as they are nice....polite.....good to me and are hot in the sack! Yes...that's what I said....hot in the sack! I wouldn't consider dating someone that isn't employeed unless they were retired. I supported one man and won't do that again. I also would like someone who understands all the different things I do and is willing to be supportive....and I will return the favor.